why cant we all get along- or agree to disagree?

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now i know that personalities are gonna clash, especially with so much estrogen in one room for 7-8 hours a day but come on people! Normally i sit back and stay out of the drama- i let people vent, because everyone needs to at some point or another- and now its my turn. I am sick of hearing the same thing for the 200th time. And its not just about one person- its about practically everyone, and im sure my self is included when your talkin to other people- How could it possibly be that EVERYONE ELSE is the one that is aggrivating? And im not talkin about one person in particular- it seems that people just cant agree to disagree and move on. My theory on it is, you dont have to like everyone, but there should be respect. If you dont like someone or what they did then dont talk to them. Were all here for the same thing- there is no certain amount of people that can graduate and were competeing for a slot to walk across the stage. It just all seems so trivial- how do some people have so much time to deal with and create drama, when there in NS? I do admit, I get aggrivated with people sometimes and I just dont hang out with that person at lunch that day or whatever- Its just aggrivating that some people can be so malicous and cruel towards one another- and were not in kindergarten- how do you go from being one persons friend one day to their mortal enemy the next? Lets be GROWN UP and mature and realize that we are all in the same boat- we swim together and we can sink together too!

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"How could it possibly be that EVERYONE ELSE is the one that is aggrivating?"

The same way that everyone else is a bad driver!!!! Duh.

Hope you feel better.

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i'm so sorry you've obviously had enough of their carp diddly today. i've had similar issues, but it was only a small group of about 5-6. i know how the op feels, and somedays, after watching and listening to all the witchy sniping you've just had enough.

1. i've discovered the drama queens, are immature little twits who enjoy making others feel bad.

2. they attempt to make others look bad or feel bad in order to increase their own low self-esteem.

3. it's easy to let yourself get pulled into their distractions, but the only one you hurt by playing their game is you.

4. if you don't play their game they can't win. the only way they will win is if you allow them to pull you down to their level, unlike the drama queen experts i only make myself look bad when i do that.

5. put on a happy smile, and say oh really, i was too busy studying to: notice, care, etc.??

yes, i know that probably wasn't what you wanted to hear, but it's the truth.

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The same way that everyone else is a bad driver!!!! Duh.

It's not that they're bad drivers.... It's that everyone faster than me is a maniac and everyone slower than me is an idiot. :yeah:

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It's not that they're bad drivers.... It's that everyone faster than me is a maniac and everyone slower than me is an idiot. :yeah:

I knew I wasn't the only one who felt this way :D

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i'm so sorry you've obviously had enough of their carp diddly today. i've had similar issues, but it was only a small group of about 5-6. i know how the op feels, and somedays, after watching and listening to all the witchy sniping you've just had enough.

1. i've discovered the drama queens, are immature little twits who enjoy making others feel bad.

2. they attempt to make others look bad or feel bad in order to increase their own low self-esteem.

3. it's easy to let yourself get pulled into their distractions, but the only one you hurt by playing their game is you.

4. if you don't play their game they can't win. the only way they will win is if you allow them to pull you down to their level, unlike the drama queen experts i only make myself look bad when i do that.

5. put on a happy smile, and say oh really, i was too busy studying to: notice, care, etc.??

yes, i know that probably wasn't what you wanted to hear, but it's the truth.

i agree with you a hundred percent. i am the person that says really?and end up saying i like that person after they keep going so theyll stop because i dont care- and thats the problem. people come to me to vent which is fine, but come on. when this one person is aggrivated with everyone in the class that is venting, it has to be them that is the one getting aggrivated, not everyone else in the class doing stuff to aggrivate her- or she just gets aggrivated very easily! who knows? either way i am over it and listening to this person witch and moan- i have better things to do with my time and worry about, like graduating!

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Tis a part of life.....

Life would be way too boring if we all agreed.Personally,I have always enjoyed listening to different opinions,thoughts,and ideas.When things leave a nasty taste in my mouth I just leave.I know that there are "drama queens" hanging out ,but just like when my son used to throw temper tantrums,I ignored it and the behavior stopped.Sometimes people just want attention and if you give them a little then they want more(kinda like ice cream;)).....In short-Ignore them and move on.

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