Becoming a Nurse at 49?

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Hello Nurse Beth,

I'm almost 49 years of age woman from Melbourne Australia considering going to school to complete nursing - either Diploma then onto degree. Am I crazy to even consider undergoing such training and intense work load as a nurse - both physically and emotionally? I never completed high school either and found school in general extremely difficult. I failed English in Year 10. Am I crazy?

Nursing seems the only viable industry in this present GFC climate. I also am single and have to support myself financially throughout my education with no one else for support. I've been unemployed now for over 7 months now. Am I completely crazy?

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Dear Am I Crazy,

You are not crazy and plenty of women have successfully done exactly what you are planning. It's not a matter of your age so much as your motivation, capability, resiliency, and drive.

To me, the question is, how realistic is this for you and how badly do you want it?

Do you have a history of setting goals and completing them?

How determined would you say you are? Do you have a support system of some kind, friends, family? What are your plans for overcoming any academic challenges?

Are you aspiring to be a nurse because you are drawn towards nursing others or are you grasping at nursing because of a seeming lack of other options? Knowing yourself and your motivation will help you to decide.

If possible, talk to someone who knows you well. If you do decide to pursue nursing, this is a great community to encourage you on your journey.

Best wishes,

Nurse Beth

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I became a nurse at 50. For me, it was easier to study than it would have been in my 20's because I was steadier; more focused and less distractable in general than when I was younger. I found I was better able to handle it emotionally after a lifetime of working in a variety of positions with coworkers having a wide range in temperment and personalities. I had also seen and weathered many life events and crisises in my life and those of family members and close friends and I came to believe that nursing was a good fit for me in terms of skills and outlook at this point in my life. Physically, it was more endurance than brute strength; although I did work with many obese patients that required extensive assistance with personal care we were well trained in body mechanics, had mechanical lifts and followed a strict policy of having 2 or more caregivers assisting with transferring, boosts, etc. I also had to become used to 12 hour shifts (but found working fewer days less stressful); had to invest in really good orthotic arch supports and shoes, and keep healthy.

Good luck if you do make the decision to go ahead; it can be crazy at times but I've found it very satisfying-and never boring!

I started school at 48; part-time at first, while I waited to get the pre-req classes I needed to apply to nursing school. Many people told me that it would take many years to get into the classes I needed, and to expect a 3-5 year wait just to get into a nursing program. Thankfully, I did not listen and was determined to plow through to obtain my goal. I applied at only one community college and was accepted upon my first application. Along the way, I met some aspiring nurses including a retired engineer who became a nurse at 72!! It wasn't easy being the oldest student in our cohort but I was able to bond with many of the younger students and the experience is one I will never forget. I attended study groups and even led my own dosage calculation group to help other students. I became the Vice President of the Class and upon graduation, received the Leadership Award & the Esprit de Corps Award.

I have to say that it wasn't easy; there was plenty of blood, sweat, & tears...but I have no regrets! Just the education & fellow students alone enriched my life more than I could dream of! And then there is the respect I gained from others but even more important is the respect I gained for myself. Plus, I am convinced that the experience made me 15 -20 years younger! LOL. So after 6 years of experience working in a hospital, I am ready to challenge myself some more; I will be starting school again before the end of the year at 58 years old!

I have discovered I have a passion not only to help others, but to teach, and I am excited about the next chapter in my life!

You're not crazy. I'm 49 who enrolled at a Community College in Jersey last year. I'll be done with my prerequisites on Spring of 2017, then I'll do the Nursing courses. I had the same question before but I met someone who started nursing school when he was sixty yrs. old and now he works in a hospital. Keep going.

Thank you for this reply. You just motivated me to keep going.

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