I work nights at a large hospital, but I'm not a Nurse. Occasionally I go to different floors of the hospital when my services are needed. I noticed a Nurse who I haven't see before on one of the floors and she caught my eyes. I immediately made small talk with her when we crossed paths and I will keep doing this when I get the opportunity to go to that floor. She knows my name and I know just a few things about her from that brief chat.
Ideally I would want to become friends slowly as time progresses and then ask her for a coffee at the hospital cafe. I'm not going to do that though because I don't want to lose my chance. I also don't even know if I'll see her because it all depends if we're working that night and if I go to that floor and cross paths when she's not busy.
The next time I see her I'm going to ask her how's she been, have a little convo, and then ask her if she wants to get a coffee with me at the hospital cafe. I may just ask her for her number or Facebook if we are suited for one another and see if she wants to hang out outside of work.
Nurses how would you feel/respond if a coworker from another floor that you barely knew asked:
1. If you wanted to go for a coffee at the hospital cafe around other nurses or nobody
2. For your number/Facebook to meet up sometimes after a decent convo
Would you all think that your trying to be pursed romantically or just platonically?
I was partially flirty with her and smiled a lot when I talked, but seriously I would just want to meet as friends and not as a date and then see where it goes.. The hospital policy is okay with dating as long as your in a different department.
Ladies, please give me some advice or recommendations..
