Anyone sick of the "Drama Queen" patient?

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Hey all....

Just wondering if anyone can relate....... In our facility...we tend to get these frequent flyer patients of the following type:

Females...in their 20's or so.....with complaints of abdominal pain.....no etiology ever found....yet they keep coming back and coming back and are absolutely the biggest drama queens in the whole world!!!! It's not so much the abdominal pain itself...I know..because I have terrible endometriosis and know what abdominal pain is like.....but it's just the way they come across....so helpless..and screaming out in pain.....I'm not a person to not believe one's pain....but sometimes it's just so damn obvious that it's all for show. Like this gal I had lastnight....when her BF was there...she was screaming..."OH I need morphine, etc'....but when the guy was gone.....she was quietly sleeping. Oh...by the way...her pain never got below a ten out of ten......even after a total of 30 mg of MS....... I feel like I'm being a bad nurse or a "not caring" nurse....but man....sometimes it drives you crazy!! I guess it's because I have had multiple ovarian cysts, tons of endo, and many organs adhered tightly together...lol..and still put in my 8 or 12 hour shifts and not said boo...some people just need to "buck up a little"...I guess that's basically my point. I better shuttie now....I've worked all night and I just realized..what I've said really didn't make that much sense...just needed to vent I guess.

Originally posted by cannoli

What is atique?

Sorry typo there. It is Actiq. Active ingredian Fentanyl citrate.

Originally posted by JennyJ

"If I take your testicles and slam them repeatedly in between 2 bricks; that's a 10. What is your pain now?" I laughed myself silly when the patient replied " 3 ".

Oh how I love that point of reference! :chuckle

My favorite was a pt that had been in the hospital for several days with back pain, abd pain, and migraine. Lots of tests, nothing showed up, but her pain was constant and 10/10, even with pain meds. Her mom would show up each morning and come in and out throughout the day until bedtime to make sure her daughter was getting appropriate pain control. When staff would enter the room, pt would moan and groan and begin limping if she was out of bed.

Once I walked in to reassess her pain after giving her pain meds, and she was out of bed, trying on clothes that mom had bought during a recent shopping excursion. She didn't see me standing in the doorway at first. When she noticed me watching her jumping up and down, trying to squeeze into a pair of pants way too small, she suddenly had excruciating pain and crumbled to the floor, slowly, so as not to hurt herself. :chuckle

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