I feel like a real DIRTBAG!

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Ok I have to confess; I may be an experienced nurse but nearly missed something HUGE last night. It was a busier-than H@ll night last night; you know the kind. When you feel badly cause NONE of your patients gets your best cause you are too busy running around, putting out fires all over the place. It has been raining labor patients where I work this week. The floor looked like a tornado had blown through.... Anywhoooo...

I had a patient who had had a dense labor epidural (gosh I hate that). She had a foley cath which the OB insisted be pulled for the last stage of pushing (I understand why). Anyhow, I had turned off the epidural by this point and once the placenta was delivered, and I was sure she was firm and not bleeding, I turned down her IV rate to 75cc/hr, knowing her bladder would get full fairly soon. I was hoping the epidural would wear off and she could void at some point! In vain. I tried EVERYTHING to make this happen. Her peri swelled horribly and no amt of ice would bring this down. I continually assessed her bladder and uterine tones and bleeding to ensure she did not become distended. (I thought)....

Well, about 3 hours later, she began to have HORRIBLE pain. I KNEW this is not normal for a routine uncomplicated primip vag delivery, so I assessed for all the usual things, uterine tone, rule out infection, check bladder tone, etc. The bladder was non palpable, uterus altho 2 fingerbreadths above U, was midline. So, I got my charge nurse and asked her to 2nd my opinion before I called the doctor. I brought a foley incase cath was needed.

Well, she agreed with me, although the bladder was non- palpable and ute midline and firm, it might be a full bladder, so with MUCH effort, and two sets of hands, we cath'd her. Guess how much urine drained? 1900 cc! I have NEVER seen anything like it. I felt HORRIBLE. What kind of nurse am I to have missed something so basic? Duh. Well predictably, after suffering the discomfort of cathing her (which I truly had wanted to avoid), she reported immediate relief (duh). NEVER again will I overlook the obvious in looking for something more complicated. And never again will I make assumptions based on basic assessments; each patient is indeed unique. Fortunately, no damage was done. Her uterus was firm, we could massage no clots out and her bladder tone was ok. She was a happy camper after this. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.......Has ANYone else ever felt this badly? I feel terrible about this oversight! Lesson learned, fortunately with no harm to the patient.:imbar

Specializes in Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis.

No not psychic, and apparantly a nurse that needs to examine her practice a wee bit closer. A Graduate nurse would have come to a more reasonable and prudent decision sooner than I did that night. sigh. I just can't let myself off the hook that easily. BUT Shandy I do thank you for your supportive words. Yours and everyone else's here. It means a lot.:kiss

Oh gawd!

The point of my post was to let you know that stuff happens--it was fixed and that was the point.

Please stop beating yourself up already. It's over a year later, and my daughter, who had chronic UTI's since she was a teenager, has not had a single UTI since her hospitalization. We don't know why; we've speculated about a lot of things.

But like I said, Deb, honey, this coulda happened to anyone. And you get help from the strangest places--but I didn't get all mad at that nurse, and I'm still not mad about it--I just showed her how to do it.

My point was:

It's ok now; the patient is fine. It's over. Let it go. OK?

PS I only became a Foley expert in LTC, where contractures get in the way, and things shrink so bad you can't find them...I told my daughter that that was my first Foley on someone

:chuckle

Specializes in ER,Neurology, Endocrinology, Pulmonology.

I know you are feeling horrible, but really, do not beat yourself up. She is doing fine, noone is hurt. IMO it is better to make a mistake like that than something more serious, and it is impossible to be perfect all the time, as much as we all try, - mistakes will happen.

I'm not a nurse yet, but i also made a mistake that upset me for days (stuck the wrong patient). It certaily eats at you for a while.

Foregive yourself and go do something pleasant for you. :)

Originally posted by SmilingBluEyes

I just can't let myself off the hook that easily.

No one died. The patient feels better. And if you were perfect, all the rest of us would feel inadequate. :)

Stop beating yourself up! You can be my nurse anytime (although, not if it involves having babies, been there, done that)

Originally posted by researchrabbit

Stop beating yourself up! You can be my nurse anytime

Ditto.

When the patient began voicing discomfort, you didn't ignore that, and that's what matters.

Hang in there. :D

Will you be my nurse? :)

I really don't get what you did that you think was so horrible? you reduced her fluid intake, examined her, got a second opinion (who agreed with you really) and got a cath in there ... what do you feel you should have done?

as I see it we make the best call we can with the information we have, what can we do more than that.

I am new around here and you may not wanna be my nurse but I would certainly trust you ..

Specializes in Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis.

What can I say? You guys rock and have bolstered my opinion of the mistake I made. I have indeed learned from it and will move on. Thank you for your supportive words; they mean more than you ever will know!

glad to see you getting over it DEB:)

Specializes in Med-surg; OB/Well baby; pulmonology; RTS.

(((((DEB)))))):kiss .....

It has been said...we are human...we all make mistakes...

You helped your patient feel better...she is fine....:kiss

I'll fly you down to 'Bama anyday to take care of me:) ;)

Ginger

Specializes in cardiac, diabetes, OB/GYN.

I hate it when they let us humans take care of each other...If you were perfect you wouldn't be good nurse material, but you would believe you were management material..Seriously....You did what any of us would do and now you have a baseline for future reference. Give yourself a break and hang in there. I can tell from your posts that you are a wonderul and caring nurse.....Otherwise, this wouldn't bother you so much!

Specializes in Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis.

thank you for that, mother/baby. you guys are the best.

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