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Hi,

Where do I begin? I am 42 and have a good paying job as a letter carrier.

The only problem, I absolutely hate being a letter carrier. The weather is far to challenging and I spend every day virtually alone. There is very little human contact. The hardest part is that the job is absolutely mind numbingly boring.

That is why a year ago I thought about becoming a nurse. I started attending evening classes and have completed all of the science pre reqs with a 3.65 GPA.

Because I already have a BS in Bus. Admin I was eligible to apply to the Accelerated BS to BSN program at Seton Hall. This was all good while I was dreaming but now the time to decide as arrived. I received my letter of acceptance and classes start in Sept. The problem is I have to quit my job at the Post Office in order to attend. Needless to say, I'm having the am I making the right decision jitters. I am not concerned with the classroom work too much, although I know it will be hard I think I can overcome it. What really has me worried (and I guess I'm the only one cause I haven't seen any other posts about it) is do you get use to dealing with naked strangers? I don't have any point of reference for this in my life. I can't imagine I would be the only person who would think of this as potentially embarrassing. Do you get use to inserting catheters? I would hate to go from a boring job to an embarrassing job. Help:imbar

Boob jobs on 50/60 year olds? Does that mean they're more firm and they don't sag so much or something? Or do they end up sagging more? :eek:

Hey! Now there's the only good reason I've heard of for having a boob job! Bring those puppies back up front where they belong and return to a A,B,C,D,DD cup as before instead of those darn "long cups"!

Boob jobs on 50/60 year olds? Does that mean they're more firm and they don't sag so much or something? Or do they end up sagging more? :eek:

No -- it means they got the nasty hard silicone ones or saline replacements from years ago -- like 15, 20 years ago. They don't sag or droop or do anything except stand at attention and it's kind of strange.

A new boob job on a 60 year old. Now that would be interesting! Can anyone say "Cher" :chuckle

Boob jobs on 50/60 year olds? Does that mean they're more firm and they don't sag so much or something? Or do they end up sagging more? :eek:

No -- it means they got the nasty hard silicone ones or saline replacements from years ago -- like 15, 20 years ago. They don't sag or droop or do anything except stand at attention and it's kind of strange.

A new boob job on a 60 year old. Now that would be interesting! Can anyone say "Cher" :chuckle

No -- it means they got the nasty hard silicone ones or saline replacements from years ago -- like 15, 20 years ago. They don't sag or droop or do anything except stand at attention and it's kind of strange.

A new boob job on a 60 year old. Now that would be interesting! Can anyone say "Cher" :chuckle

hehehe that didn't even occur to me! I think I would like to see a couple, just for heck of it. I can see it now... oh, that's got to be funny

No -- it means they got the nasty hard silicone ones or saline replacements from years ago -- like 15, 20 years ago. They don't sag or droop or do anything except stand at attention and it's kind of strange.

A new boob job on a 60 year old. Now that would be interesting! Can anyone say "Cher" :chuckle

hehehe that didn't even occur to me! I think I would like to see a couple, just for heck of it. I can see it now... oh, that's got to be funny

how comfortable some of the patients in the LTC facility were where we did our first term clinicals. Whenever someone was going to do a procedure, our instructor would gather a few students around to watch the student who was doing the procedure (actually, to watch the procedure being done.) It was amazing to me when one student was going to cath this guy (75+), and we were all standing around--for some reason we were waiting for something, I forget what, and the client was laying there, chatting with 4 or 5 women with his equipment clearly exposed---just as if it was just another day (which it was, for him.) It was a bit surreal.

As far as negative memberes--yup, they do happen. I didn't know they could do that. I was putting a new condom cath on a client and saw what looked like a 1-2" stub coming out of his perineum. I thought perhaps he hadn't been circumcised (in fact, the male nursing instructor in the room with me asked him; and he wasn't). I just kept pushing back the skin, trying to find the meatus. Finally, it all popped out, 4-5 inches or so and looked like your normal circumcised equipment. I don't know how it manages to do that--was sort of like a jack-in-the-box! :) Other students in our class experienced the same thing with other clients.

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I'm looking forward to seeing everyone naked as I find human anatomy very fascinating and not the least bit embarrassing. It's not a sexual thing but an interest thing. My worry is that I might not be as sensitive as I need to be with people's feelings and fears. How doyou tell - other than the very obvious - how uncomfortable a person is getting naked for any healthcare professional?

as a male i think i can tell you a few of the reasons you see a negative member - or whatever you called it - it's because sometimes if that area gets very cold the member will retract back into itself - as it were - to stay warm - just like the testicles which can actually go up into the lower pelvic region when cold to try and maintain a proper temperature. with the member it's actually kind of annoying and sometimes pushing the skin back to pop the it out hurts just a wee bit. also, if a guy isn't wearing underwear and the head of the member is rubbing against his pants the member might retract to avoid injury. also, if a guy is very overweight with lots of fat around the member shaft sometimes the member frequently retracts. i don't know why unless the fat pushes the skin up and over the member and then the member naturally retracts. i've never noticed a very large member retracting but then i haven't done any surveys either.

also, sudden stress or anxiety will cause the testicles and member to retreat into the body.

as a male i think i can tell you a few of the reasons you see a negative member - or whatever you called it - it's because sometimes if that area gets very cold the member will retract back into itself - as it were - to stay warm - just like the testicles which can actually go up into the lower pelvic region when cold to try and maintain a proper temperature. with the member it's actually kind of annoying and sometimes pushing the skin back to pop the it out hurts just a wee bit. also, if a guy isn't wearing underwear and the head of the member is rubbing against his pants the member might retract to avoid injury. also, if a guy is very overweight with lots of fat around the member shaft sometimes the member frequently retracts. i don't know why unless the fat pushes the skin up and over the member and then the member naturally retracts. i've never noticed a very large member retracting but then i haven't done any surveys either.

also, sudden stress or anxiety will cause the testicles and member to retreat into the body.

hahahahahahhaahahahahaha:chuckle .........i love anatomy too! male anatomy especially , seeing as i have more experience with the female stuff :rolleyes: ( had it all my life afterall!! ) it is just interesting to find out such interesting (and sometimes funny) stuff about men and their bodies!!! hahahahahaha:coollook:
Specializes in Telemetry/Med Surg.
as a male i think i can tell you a few of the reasons you see a negative member - or whatever you called it - it's because sometimes if that area gets very cold the member will retract back into itself - as it were - to stay warm - just like the testicles which can actually go up into the lower pelvic region when cold to try and maintain a proper temperature. with the member it's actually kind of annoying and sometimes pushing the skin back to pop the it out hurts just a wee bit. also, if a guy isn't wearing underwear and the head of the member is rubbing against his pants the member might retract to avoid injury. also, if a guy is very overweight with lots of fat around the member shaft sometimes the member frequently retracts. i don't know why unless the fat pushes the skin up and over the member and then the member naturally retracts. i've never noticed a very large member retracting but then i haven't done any surveys either.

also, sudden stress or anxiety will cause the testicles and member to retreat into the body.

thank you for pointing that out to us michael. don't know what we'd do otherwise without you! :chuckle

i might be able to tell you about some that i've experienced. :rolleyes:

Well, I can see I did the wrong thing trying to explain a little about male anatomy. Sorry to waste your time - I thought this was a professional-type site. My mistake.

Sorry if I offended anyone.

Specializes in Telemetry/Med Surg.
Well, I can see I did the wrong thing trying to explain a little about male anatomy. Sorry to waste your time - I thought this was a professional-type site. My mistake.

Sorry if I offended anyone.

Dear Michael---you did nothing wrong. My response to you was just my dry sense of humor. Said tongue-in-cheek kind of way. Please don't get the wrong idea or be upset. Yes, this is a very professional type site--you are right. And no, you're not mistaken and you did not offend anyone!!! We always learn things from people's posts and I appreciate the time you took for yours--

but believe me...I was only joking around but you didn't take it that way. I do apologize for upsetting you...please forgive me!

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