OnlybyHisgraceRN 14,602 Views
Joined Mar 29, '12.
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OP you will be getting flamed, just wanted to warn you. However, I guess I'm going to get flammed too because I LOVE being a christian nurse as well. I don't push my beliefs on my patients. I simply enjoy promoting healing in my patients. Every day I pray for my patients and myself. I pray that God works through me to provide competent and quality care to them.
I've been clinically diagnosed with depression at age 13 and took AD and anti-anxiety meds off and on.
For the most part I was able to cope but working in bedside has exacerbated my sx.
Since starting nursing 6 years ago( CNA,LPN, now new RN) I've finally come to the conclusion that sometimes the stress gets the best of me and makes me feel worse.
After much thought and consideration, I asked my doctor today to restart my medications for depression and anxiety.
Since I have bills and a contract quitting is not an option, therefore I have to do what ever it takes to get me through the day. All I can do now is take one day at a time, until I can retrieve a nursing position out of bedside.
I love nursing with every fiber of my being, but bedside is NOT for me. I don't think I can ever get used to it.
Anyone been through anything similiar?
I'm going to pick on myself for a moment. I have to admit that sometimes I blurt things out without truly thinking about it. Today I said something ( without thinking) to a patient that was purely stupid.
Long story short: My patient had to drink a medication that did not taste so good. She had to drink a whole cup and the only thing I could do to make it bearable was to add a little ice.
Patient: "This taste horrible"
Me: "Just imagine it is a magarita on the rocks"
Patients' husband: " That is not a good idea, since we are both recovering alcoholics"
Me: " Oh you are right...bad idea, never mind.( then I proceed to use more therapeutic interventions)
Needless to say I learned my lesson, never assume anything.
I now except my award for blurting out the most stupid thing ever!
Hey speak for yourself. I've never borrowed medication.
My pt.: "Oh you're a student, how nice. Do you know what you might want to specialize in?"
Me (as a 1st year RN student): "Well, I'm thinking oncology. Med Surg is so depressing!"
My pt.: "Med Surg is depressing?!!!!! What, people suffering from cancer isn't depressing to you?!"
Me: "Um, no, um, I mean, yes. It's just that I keep treating patients who are obese, have COPD from smoking decades, have renal failure from being out of control diabetics, & so on. I'd rather treat others who have a desire to fight to live, which is the case with many Dx with cancer because it strikes many unexpectedly. Many in Med Surg seem not to care about themselves. They let themselves fall apart."
I wanted to go back in time to choose my words more wisely. The worse thing was that she had told me earlier that she misses visiting her best friend who's undergoing chemo. This particular pt. was overweight & suffering from conditions beyond her control. Her very obese daughter was in the room too. I couldn't wait to excuse myself out of the room!
Luckily, I made up for it later by providing her excellent education on her condition. I taught her things she said no one had ever taken the time to explain to her. I was so good, I could hardly believe it! She was very grateful. I just wish her daughter had witnessed that, so I could feel like I saved some face.
This was is more of " mean things nurss say"
A coworker had a difficult patient. The patient was very sassy and sarcastic. The nurse asked the patient if he was in pain. The patient replied " are you in pain"?
The nurse stated: " Yes, I'm in pain but my pain leaves when I go home, yours will always be here"
Its 6:35pm, census is 6 patients on a 16 bed icu.... Just as I'm about to give report, the oncoming nurses states how "quite" the unit is. Before the nurse can even finish her statement my patient who was given transfer orders goes into 40 beats of bigeminy pvcs and is symptomatic.
People please, don't say the q word, especially around a new grad rn ICU nurse....
Thanks guys for posting. I know I'm not the only one. I have another funny for you all.
Last week I offered a nurse and a doctor a mint. The nurse accepted the mint, the doctor stated " no thanks" .
Me: " It is always the people who really need a mint that refuses"
I honestly made a general statement, but since the doc refused a mint, I hope she didn't think it was directed towards her.
I'm sure her breath smells fine.
Faith has been more than enough for me. With faith plus your effort, mountains truly move.
First, let me say that I acknowledge your feelings and understand your need to vent.
Now for my two cents: There are two sides to a story. If it was neglect I don't codone it at all. In LTC the resident to nurse ratio ranges from 1:20 to 1:60. CNA's are expected to take care of up to 10-15 patients a peice and these residents require total care.
Are some residen'ts neglected in LTC, yes. I've seen it. The reasoning behind it is either due to lazy staff or just because there is not enough staff to go around.
I've worked in LTC for 2 years and I can say it is soul crushing. In this gentleman's case, it could have been much worse. Thank God he got to the ER just in time to be placed in your care.
Just know that there are crappy and excellent nurses in every specialty, including LTC.
Seriously. I'm the nurse who does her very best each and every shift. I'm the nurse who prays for my patients, staff and family members. I'm the nurse that has the upbeat bubbly personally on a unit full of uptight, ICU nurses. I'm the nurse that makes mistakes but learns from them. I may appear like a chicken little at times, but I'm truly doing the best that I can. I'm not the best nurse in the world but certaintly not the worse.
I shared this one before. One time I was walking my blind patient to the dinning room.
As we got to the table she bumped into the chair. I stated : " I'm sorry, I guess this is like the blind leading the blind".
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