I guess I have a different way of looking at it. When people annoy me, I know I must work on my self, my own attitude, because I don't respect myself as long as I reject and separate myself from others. And self-respect is Joy.
Treat everyone with respect even if they don't deserve it Everyone deserves respect. If you are giving a fake kind of respect, all the while thinking the person doesn't deserve it, then people will sense this sort of inauthenticity. If you don't tru...