The roughest week ever

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:uhoh3:I graduate in four months I have been counting down. I graduate on 6/25/09 it seems so close yet so far away after this week. Has anyone ever had a crazy week or it just seemed like all odds was against you at a particular moment while in nursing school and if so what did you do to remain sane? I had a terrible week and began to second guess myself and the calling to be a nurse that I have felt so sure of since forever. I lost a patient in my first code Monday and then I almost killed my whole family by driving the car on to the porch and striking my fiancee, good thing he has fast reflexes and I only skinned his heal. I don't know maybe the stress is finally piling up you know any advice? Am i just over reacting and need to take a chill pill? I also failed the easiest test in the world a derm test and must re-mediate meaning i can kiss the honors society good bye it just sucks:bugeyes: . So sorry to ramble and or vent, or play the violin like my instructor says but I am starting to think these are signs from above to quit while ahead.

nurseaboveboard

189 Posts

Specializes in Psych/Rehab/Family practice/Oncology.

Do not quit! We have all been there, except maybe the driving up on the porch and almost killing your loved ones part, ha! Glad everyone is ok, and hopefully you're still engaged! You have made it so far, KEEP GOING! Best luck to you and your loved ones.

zooz

196 Posts

Of course no one student has been in the same situation as any other student and we all cope with things differently. I've known students and nurses who've gotten pregnant twice during nursing school (note: part time and thus extended program!), have lost loved ones, gotten divorced or married...you name it. But being completely overwhelmed, stressed out, and tempted to throw in the towel - even near the end - seems to be the one thing we've all had in common.

I hope things work out for you. All I can say is don't make any rash decisions and keep in mind how much work you've already put into this. I know that since I managed to convince myself of the following facts:

  1. School is temporary.
  2. There will be good, bad, and neutral weeks.
  3. Every moment one sticks it out brings one closer to graduation.

The everyday frustrations of nursing school have been MUCH easier to deal with.

shaynoble

6 Posts

Specializes in long term care.

You have to find one activity that helps de-stress you so when you feel overwhelmed you can take a time out and chill. I like playing simulation video games (SIMS, Animal crossing). During my first semester of nursing school my dad's dad had a heartattack on election day then my mom's dad had a heartattack the day after election day. They were in the same hospital at times, one had triple bypass and one had quadruple bypass. Just find a way to relax, even if it's once a week taking a bath for 30 minutes. And, don't be afraid to just cry. It makes you feel better.

LoriJoCNA

6 Posts

I feel the same way. Right when I went into school everything fell apart :banghead:, but everyone else in my class (40 of us) had the same problem. I just keep going and remember it is temporary, DON'T QUIT. It really sucks I know I went from straight A's to barely passing, now I'm to a B average again. You have to work extra hard to keep everything together but it will be worth it. And know that you're not alone!!! :)

AZMOMO2

1,194 Posts

Specializes in Cardiac Care.

I am only 8 1/2 weeks in and pretty much hit the wall this week. I just could not get motivated, felt overwhelmed and seriously wondered what the heck I was thinking to embark on this? Stress happens, codes happen ( there will be more) and hopefully the fiancee is ok... but hey who hasn't wanted to run over their fiancee, husband, SO. or a complete stranger.. since starting Nursing school? LOL

Many hugs to you!! Take a deep breath...relax and repeat " ___ months done and 4 months to go " either way, one of those numbers will make you feel better!

ashleypoo22

13 Posts

Specializes in LTC, Hospital, SNF, Home Health, Agency.

As you get closer to graduating it seems too good to be true. I was 4 weeks from graduating when I freaked out and let everything fall apart. I took some time for myself and it helped me realize that being a nurse was my destiny, and I went back, retook some classes and did my best ever. I wish I just never gave up one day and had to go back. Take a weekend off and relax, do something fun and don't worry. You made it this far so you know you will make it the rest of the way.

By the way, I have accidentally hit my boyfriend-at-the-time with my car before. Don't let it get to you...they will understand!

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