Re: Pathophys of End Stage Disease?
Tewdles, you are too funny! Re: time to pee...I feel like a criminal scoping out McDonalds and Convenience stores between visits just to use their restroom but rarely buying anything! It is our lot in life, I suppose (I usually hope that they cut me some slack when they see my RN id badge).
The resources you listed are excellent reads and I agree that MissninaRN will get most of her education from the IDT. Most Hospice Physician's/Medical Directors are incredible teachers to new staff and are happy to share their knowledge about end-stage pathophys of various diseases. This board is also an excellent resource as we have many seasoned and well-versed nurses willing and able to give a considered opinion on what you may be facing. I think one of the most important (and first!) things I learned upon entering this specialty field was the saying, "People die the way they lived". I remember thinking, "Huh....wonder what
that means?" Well, it didn't take very long to understand exactly what that means and boy, is it true! The patients I used to be most concerned about were the ones who were absolute control freaks in their normal lives or who fostered a high level of anxiety and/or friction amongst their inner circle of family/friends. They almost always died what we usually would consider a 'bad death'. What does that look like? Instead of progressing peacefully to what I term a 'turned-in place inside yourself' where people do the work they need to let go when they are ready, these unfortunate patients struggle and fight to keep
away from going to that place. But they MUST get there eventually and it is so horrible to watch a dying patient struggle against the inevitable of what I perceive is facing absolute Truth (and I see that as God) without any excuses, any justifications...not so much 'judgement' but seeing your life without the rose-colored spectacles on. I've only had a handful or two of these patients and I have to pray and breathe and accept that this was their journey and respect it for what it is. And we work our tails off to manage symptoms but when they are more spiritually distressed/distraught it is very difficult, if not impossible, to provide optimal comfort as we just don't have any medications to help this non-physiological angst.
I'm sorry if I got a bit off-topic...as you can see, these cases tend to stay with me. I carefully tuck them away in a very tender place in my heart and remember them and their families when I pray.
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