Hey there Jamesday:
Listen, why don't you post this on the Military Nurses forum? You might get more responses.
Secondly, have you looked into attending a distance type program? Lots of accredited BSN programs are now on-line and would seem to fit into your schedule. If you attend a program "out-of-state" then you might have to set up your own clinical site with a preceptor, but that is like the only major drawback I could envision for you.
[Okay, please wait til I get my flame retardant suit on!
] Lastly, have you ever thought about "crossing over" and going Green (as in the Army)? They would pay for your education and give you a stipend, as well. You would be non-deployable as long as you are in school. Just a suggestion......
Congrats on being certified in both CLS and the TCCC! Good Job!
If I can be of some help don't hesitate to PM me.