When coworkers make prejudiced statements

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Yesterday I had two nurses make anti-Mexican statements. The first was a new nurse who moved from Montana and made these statements in the medroom. She's having trouble adjusting to the hospital, which does have a considerable Mexican population, but I haven't noticed the Mexicans being particularly difficult patients, they seem to come in all stripes. I made some soothing comments and changed the subject.

The second statement was made during report, I was telling the story of a patient who was a real psychosocial disaster, very difficult, a total drain on society type, we had to move her roomate the woman was so loud, obnoxious and off the wall. She had a Spanish last name so the nurse I reported to made a derogatory remark. I told him that I didn't think this woman was Mexican but was married to one, thus nipping that one in the bud. He made this comment at the nurses station within earshot of everyone! :eek:

Meanwhile, we have Hispanic coworkers galore, most of whom are awesome people! I suppose a few Hispanic workers might also resent non-Hispanics, but I find the whole thing appalling. It always blindsides me! I need to practice a witty comeback, like the fact that my husband's half sisters are half Mexican (true).

How do you guys handle this type of situation?

Specializes in Geriatrics, Cath Lab, Cardiology,Neuro.

My pet peeve when it comes to prejudicial remarks are the ones about mental illness or dementia! I hate it when people call patients "loony" "psycho" "crazy" and laugh at patients with dementia because they make bizarre statements

hey ya'll.I'm from the deep south and yep racism is horrible around here-YOU would be shocked at how us WHITE people are treated! racism works both ways.

Specializes in IMCU.

I am a southerner who lived as a young adolescent in Michigan during the civil rights era. I was treated like my family owned slaves not only by kids but teachers in school. When we moved back to rural Alabama I was not treated badly but was always seen as an outsider because of my "fifty dollar" words. I was also very opinionated and that didn't get me anywhere either. Guess I was just meant to grow up to be a card carrying member of the ACLU from Hodges Alabama, LOL! (Maybe I should have married Morris Dees, LOL!) I have a master's degree, two bachelors degrees and I still speak with a country southern accent. I refuse to change.....this is who I am. I am proud of my Daddy who rode the rails during the depression to find work and of my mother who was the first nurse in her county and also the first woman there to own a car. I am proud to have picked cotton, worked in factories and to have lived in a trailer several years of my life.

When I was 4 years old, Daddy taught me that it was wrong for me to drink from the "colored" water fountains. Not because it was nasty or unseemly but he said it wasn't fair. I asked him why and he told me that if a little "colored girl" drank from the white's fountain that her Daddy would be put in jail, so out of respect, I shouldn't drink from their water fountain. This man had a tenth grade education and more compassion and wisdom than 10 men. We lived in a time when racism was institutionalized and within that realm, he managed to teach me it was wrong. I think he and Mama would be very proud to see who is our president today! They were not rich people, very much working class, and they are definately not the only exceptional people I have met in the south or the country for that matter.

I also have a real hard time hearing anyone described as "white trash" or "red neck" because of the way they speak or how little success they have had in life. I come from a long line of those wonderful folk and I try very hard to help my grandchildren appreciate their heritage instead of being ashamed of it. My Daddy was half Cherokee on both sides and he grew up "not talking" about being indian. It was against the law in Alabama for indians to own property until 1955. My sister still remembers a full blood relative who would visit from the reservation up in Cherokee but I don't think I ever met him or was just a baby when he would come round.

I am sure no stranger to predjudice, and I hate it from any perspective.

Mahage

Powerful sharing of an important point of view! Thanks for taking the time to tell your story.

To TexasRN-ICU....

LOL, speaking of the term "cracker." At 46 years of age, I have heard it many many times. I've been called this. Up until 18 months ago, I thought it meant that a cracker is white and so are you....etc.

However, someone advised me that this term applied to "one who cracks the whip" in slavery times. I still don't know. Nor do I know truly what the term "honky" means.

In corrections for 5ish years we hear all sorts of terms from inmates. One just quickly gets desensitized to most of it. I have had some inmates say to me, "we just cannot get a rise out of you...." Actually, I take that as a compliment. LOL.

Thanks for your post.

M

To TexasRN-ICU....

LOL, speaking of the term "cracker." At 46 years of age, I have heard it many many times. I've been called this. Up until 18 months ago, I thought it meant that a cracker is white and so are you....etc.

However, someone advised me that this term applied to "one who cracks the whip" in slavery times. I still don't know. Nor do I know truly what the term "honky" means.

In corrections for 5ish years we hear all sorts of terms from inmates. One just quickly gets desensitized to most of it. I have had some inmates say to me, "we just cannot get a rise out of you...." Actually, I take that as a compliment. LOL.

Thanks for your post.

M

forgive a former linguistics student...

from Online Etymology Dictionary

Cracker, Southern U.S. derogatory term for "poor, white trash" (1766), is from c.1450 crack "to boast" (e.g. not what it's cracked up to be), originally a Scottish word. Especially of Georgians by 1808, though often extended to residents of northern Florida.

"I should explain to your Lordship what is meant by crackers; a name they have got from being great boasters; they are a lawless set of rascalls on the frontiers of Virginia, Maryland, the Carolinas and Georgia, who often change their places of abode." [1766, G. Cochrane]

"Honky" derogatory slang word for "white person," 1967, black slang, of unknown origin, perhaps from late 19c. hunky "East-Central European immigrant," a colloquial shortening of Hungarian. Honky in the sense of "factory hand" is attested from 1946.

Specializes in LTC, Med/Surg, Peds, ICU, Tele.

I thought that 'Honky' was in honor of white geese. Many domestic geese are white and they waddle around and honk a lot.

Specializes in PACU, ED.

I had heard that "honky" came from the practice of white folks going into black neighborhoods for drugs/sex. They would honk their horn to get a person's attention rather than park their car, get out and talk with them.

I thought that 'Honky' was in honor of white geese. Many domestic geese are white and they waddle around and honk a lot.

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you clearly need to get out more.

leslie:lol2:

Specializes in Clinical Risk Management.
Now, you're not prejudiced against crazy militia people, are you? :D

:bugeyes: I am. But then, I used to be married to one of 'em. In Tennessee, no less!:icon_roll

To feralnastalgia,

WOW!!! LOL. Can I hire you on retainer?

So the term I heard 18 months ago is not accurate also. hahaha. How enlightening.

So the next time I hear it, I get to challenge it as I seriously doubt the person using it has the real scoop either.

So when I give them this data, can I give you credit? LOL.

A particular floor in our facily... as I was making rounds...was discussing racial terms just the other day and this very subject came up. So now I get to give them the real meaning.

Thanks for your input.

M

eltripRe: When coworkers make prejudiced statements

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Now, you're not prejudiced against crazy militia people, are you?
:D

:bugeyes: I am. But then, I used to be married to one of 'em. In Tennessee, no less!:icon_roll

Now Nurse Eltrip.... just because many folks from TN's family tree is a wreath, doesn't mean we're all crazy people. LOL. :bugeyes:

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