The more I see of some of the ppl I work with the more I think I want to spend my time in a forest with trees and animals!
one of my flaws is that I am a conflict avoider...I dont enjoy conflict, I know it happens as we all have differing opinions etc but why on earth do some ppl take such delight in conflict and pitting one person against another?!?
for example, one day we were particularly busy and someone asked me why the orders werent done for their pt yet, I explained that I was the only one at the desk working as the nurse I work with was at a meeting.....so the next day the nurse I work with confronts me saying that I called her lazy and said that I was doing all the work
yeah cuz I'm so great at complimenting myself all the time, hello have you met me?
I calmy explained that I didnt say anything personal, I was speaking about the charts not being done, and If I'm commenting on work type issues then thats different then calling someone lazy or saying I cant stand working with them.
I also took this moment to tell her that her "friend" did her a great disservice by telling her what she told her because a.it wasnt true and
b. it did nothing constructive and caused a conflict between the 2 of us.
she accepted what I had to say but it just made me realize that some people thrive on misery and creating stress and struggle
if I ever get like that could someone do me the kind favour of kicking my butt.......
thanks in advance
peace love and understanding man (or something, hey I wasnt around for the 60's and most of the 70's either )
cheers