I had an event happen at work and would like some feedback or advice from all of you. I have been a nurse now for just over 5 yrs and during that time have worked critical care right from the start. I had two out of three of my patients the other day needing a lot of attention including a spastic family member. I went to one room to check a blood pressure when I needed to be in another room at the same time I am sure you get the picture. While I was in there she asked for the bedpan (which she had been on several times and not having a BM) I was so busy I ask that she put the light on for help from a nursing assistant, apparently the patient complained and I was remrimanded and told I should have taken care of it that it took just as much time to put her on the bed pan as it would take for an assistant to come in. I was so frustrated I said I have two critically ill patients what do you want me to do? Was not a good conversation with an assistant manager. Later I asked the assistant about it and she replied well if you were in the room you should have taken care of it. My reply was I always help you when you need it and she agreed, I said I really wish you guys could walk a day in our shoes to truly understand what we are up against. She is an excellent assistant but I did her job at one time and it does not compare to the reponsibility a nurse has. What do you think?