moms in school
- 0Oct 28, '02 by cna on her wayI was just wanting to see how many of you students were moms and to see how you guys get along being in class with your kids. I have two boys 8 and 4. I will start my final semester of pre reqs in January and now I am a little nervous about fitting the full time program into my life. Can anyone tell me what a normal day is like as far as time wise in class? My kids will both be in school when I start the program I'm just wondering if the classes usually start at 7 and go to 3 or what. I am doing the LPN program now and later I will do the bridge over. Any input will help.
- 0Oct 28, '02 by avimomI'm usually in class 9-4 3 days a week, with two days of clinical from 7-3:30.
It hasn't been easy, so far. I started a 2 year BSN program in September, and I can't count how many times I've had to leave class early or arrange alternate care for my poor little 16 month old girly. Darn all those day-care cooties! I even had to miss an exam last week because the kiddo was running a fever. I keep thinking that as long as I can get through this first semester, I'll be able to manage, and I haven't flunked out yet. Only time will tell.
- 0Oct 28, '02 by mario_ragucciMy hat is off to the single mo's and single dad's that go to RN school. You definately need a support.sys. My support.sys is here and at work. School isn't a support.sys because they are the ones demanding so much of you. Accept that you will fall in the begin and enjoy the falls. You know how you have to fall and get up as part of learning to walk. You can be very hard on yourself if you want to be, why?
- 0Oct 29, '02 by renerianI had a two month old baby plus other kids when I started school. I went at night. I worked part time during the day plus babysat six kids two and under off and on during the week. I missed many firsts that my kids did. It was h e double hockey sticks but I am glad I toughed it out.......
- 0Oct 29, '02 by traumaRUs AdminWhen I did the LPN program my kids were 7 and 12, then 9 and 14 when I did RN. I worked full-time nights and went to school daysl My husband really supported me going back to school and helped so much. The boys did fine, but I was REALLY tired a lot.
Now, I'm going back for my BSN, but the boys are 17 and 22 - much easier now. Still having supportive husband makes a huge difference.
- 0Oct 29, '02 by jdomepI feel very lucky that my school started an evening program I have 4 little guys and on class days I have a babysitter come at 4:15 till DH gets home at 5:15 and he gets to take care of them for the night and on clinical weekends (it makes him appreciate all I do for him and the boys :chuckle )
Studying is tough - I grab time when I can and try to make the best of it, I tape my notes to play during the day and I use note cards to keep with me at all times.
Our teachers are flexible about lecture but not on clinicals!
- 0Oct 29, '02 by lindahannanursing school is simply put CRAZY! i started out when my son was 11 weeks old, he is now 5 years old and i am in my last year(thank god!). i guess its all about sacrifices. i didnt want him to be in daycare so i stayed at home all day, and worked and went to school. yuck. so basically no life but i keep telling myself it will all be worth it. (right?? now that i only have to work and go to school since he is in school it seems sooo much easier. some teachers are evil, others are easier when they know you have kids. clinicals you MUST attend. your kids sick, you go, your sick you go(yeah that one makes sense right). one thing that has totally helped out alot of my friends in class is being a cna. problem is you are looking at about ten bucks an hour and who can survive on ten dollars an hour!!!! and whatever you do take a&p beforehand!!!! i spent a year and half taking all my pre's for this program and the bsn program that i am going to straight after. another thing i found that works, dont study at home, there are always going to be phonecalls you get, dr phil on oprah or something that catches your attention, i find dunkin doughnuts the best they are open 24/7 and you can get all the caffeine you are going to need!