I'm discovering a whole new world on the day shift at the long-term care facility where I work. We have a male in the female dominated office. One of the females is recently divorced and people say she's on the prowl again (though she is past her prime and I certainly don't see anything to go after.) Apparently, there are rumors going around that she is after this male employee (who happens to be married). A little gossip can be fun but this gossip does not seem harmless and I can see how jobs can be lost over stuff like this. The nurses (especially) like to dig in, and I hear comments all the time. The newly single woman was in his office and he came out and got a hand wipe and when he was out of earshot one of the nurses said I don't even want to know where his hands have been!
Not very nice and no, I don't participate. But when would it be appropriate to bring this up? I feel like someone should let them know people are talking. I personally have not seen any evidence of an affair. This woman is naturally one of the flirty types but like I said, any looks she ever had have long faded and there is a whole sea of pretty young ladies if anyone was looking to do that sort of thing...