Heinous or Forgivable???

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I was doing a 1:1 observation with an elderly confused woman who tends to wander. So I was in the room with her and the 19 year old unit clerk came in with a piece of paper that said " My name is !#@*. If found please return me to Unit @*!$. she then stuck the paper on the lady's back with a piece of tape. I waited until she left and I removed it because I think that is totally degrading and if someone did that to my mom I would knock them out. So later the lady and I were walking down the hall and the unit clerk goes, ' Where is her sign"? I said, "she took it off,"(even though i am the one who took it off) so then the clerk goes and gets the sign and sticks it back on her back and I was like, " come on, don't put a sign on her back, ' and she gets all nasty and goes, " well everyone else does it, " I said, " well if she is supervised like she is supposed to be and has hospital ID like she is supposed to, then she shouldn't need a sign, " Not to mention the fact that it is altogether tacky and mean. I find it the equivalent of putting a KICK ME sign on someone's back. So then the clerk grabbed the paper and ripped it up in little pieces and and stomped away like a 2 year old. The sad thing is that she just started nursing school. What does everyone else think of this? Am I overreacting?

Ya'll crack me up!

I totally agree, if that was my mom.....someone will be saying "lawsuit" in their dreams!

That's down right sad!

Vegas~~ I'll hold your purse! lol

Specializes in Nurse Anesthetist.

Don't worry, this chick will never make it thru nursing school!

Specializes in Med-Surg Nursing.

Well, two wrongs don't make a right. What I'd do is have a little chat with this young lady and politely explain WHY she cannot put signs on residents backs!! Then I'd tell her that if I saw her doing this again then I'll report her to management.

I am not one who is a tattle tale. If someone does something wrong and provided no patients were harmed, then I take that person aside and explain to them why their actions are incorrect. I think that this harbors a bettor co-worker relationship. BUT as I found out a few months ago.....Not every nurse feels the same way as I do.

Just because everyone was doing that doesn't make it right. You did the right thing. I know if someone ever mistreated my loved one like that I would kick ass and take names later. That is some cruel mess. LTC do some shady mess that is why I don't work in them anymore I couldn't stand the abuse and lack of care the elderly were getting. They pay this exuberant amount of money per month only to be treated like a damn dog. I would have reported her big time. That says a lot about what type of nurse she may end up being.

Sorry, this emergency nurse would be busy; I am sure I would be in the middle of SOMEthing...

this little lamb should have been marched into managements office to the slaughter i say........... and there is one thing i am a little confused..a clerk is just that are they not, what right do they have to intervene with any nursing care??

tell that little one to go and get herself a cerebral lavage or a washout of some sort.........:chuckle

You and your colleagues are in a professional facility. What if the patient's family members or any other patients and/or family members saw this. What does this say about your facility. It should be reported and dealt with. I am young myself (well, not that young...) and I don't find it forgivable by the young clerk or anyone else.

My two cents.

Specializes in Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis.

HEINOUS...UNforgiveable. end of story.

I agree with much that has been said, and I think that the clerk needs an attitude adjustment. I know this might sound bad, but maybe if she was that immature to not realize that what she was doing was disrespectful, maybe she actually thought it was a good idea. I wonder if maybe she realized that what she did was stupid and was so embarrassed that she made an excuse ("everyone else is doing it") and then tore up the sign in anger because she felt angry at looking so stupid. In any case, I think maybe her nursing career needs to at least be delayed a few years.

I'm a little bit upset by all the underlining of her age. I myself am 19 and would never think to do anything like that. I am starting school for my nursing pre-req's this month. I know that she is immature, but some of you make it sound like her age has everything to do with it. Many of my classmates in school are going to be at least 10 years old than me, and I struggle to be taken seriously in my studies and even at work. I don't expect anybody to coddle me just because I'm young. At 18, you are considered an adult and should act as such, but I know MANY people twice my age that act like spoiled, bratty children. Hope you guys can understand my point of view a bit and keep it in mind next time someone younger than you does something wrong.....

-swiftee

Specializes in Med-Surg.
Originally posted by Swiftee

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I'm a little bit upset by all the underlining of her age. I myself am 19 and would never think to do anything like that.

-swiftee [/b]

I understand what you are saying Swiftee. I was 18 when I started nursing school, and certainly had the idea of dignity and respect toward others by then. (had to grow up in other ways though).

I think it takes some folks longer to grow up than others. Strong role models guide you through. And they teach you to take a stand for what is right .

(Thank you to all those wonderful nurses and patients who guided me through!! :kiss)

Specializes in Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis.

yea quit making excuses for her so-called age.....cruelty and immaturity are NOT limited to the young, you know...no way in hell is she cut out to be a nurse, or anyone dealing w/the public if you ask me.:(

Originally posted by LasVegasRN

All that would have needed to happen was that resident's family to walk in and see that. If I saw one of my loved one's with a sign on their back like that, someone would have to hold my purse.

Hold my purse and my earrings!And I'm coming out of my shoes! It's time to box! What is the point of making a patient 1:1 if you have to be concerned about them walking off? I know they can move fast, but come on!! I hope she gets weeded out of nursing school the first day.

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