Becoming a Nurse After 40

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Just thought I'd start a thread about this, because I am probably not the only one out there that feels this way.

So I will be one of those individuals that starts a career in nursing after the age of 40, and I sometimes feel envious of those nurses that are around my age that already have 20 or so years in the profession. So by the time we are 50, they will have @ 30 years while I will only have less than 10. The way I calculate it, I will probably only be able to give 35 years max into the profession, and will be at an age older than most other nurses retire (I don't want to retire at 65, I want to keep going into my 70's). I find myself sometimes wishing I had followed my fleeting instinct to do nursing during my first undergrad years. People try to tell me that I should be proud of the years I spent in another profession (which I am) before I embarked in nursing but the more I spend with nursing, the more I feel regret that I did not start with this profession earlier. I try to resolve my feelings by convincing myself that I can always blend my prior career into nursing (something many people cannot do) and that will give me an edge, which means I will not be delegated to floor nursing for the rest of my working years. I do want to work as a staff nurse for at least 5 years to get the raw experience of nursing, I have no desire even to supervise other nurses right now. Been there with management, done that, and happy to just do my job and make money for now. I think also that in becoming a nurse after 40 not many people will peg you as being a new nurse right away ... but then again, people do say I don't look my age :D

I just brainstormed the paragraph above so forgive me if it sounds like jibberish .. hopefully you all understood my point. Just want to get new perspectives on this, thanks!

I am starting the Rn program this coming fall. i am very excited, but extremely nervous. I will be 41 years old. I have three young children and thankfully have very supposrtive husband. my kids are 8,6,4.we do not have family around, so this will be my first year getting a "babysitter" just to make sure the two older ones get off the bus and iwll keep an eye on them until myself or husband gets home and will need to take them to the neighbors to get them off to school for me. its very hard for me not to be here when they get home,im always nervous they will miss the bus or get on the wrong one. ugh!!!!! then will my baby she will be in preschool but also will be in the daycare area when preschool hours are done. this is hard on both of us, since she doesn't like change and shes only away from me no more then 2 hours ( of course when I work its longer, but shes home with daddy).. I know its going to be alot of work and alot of study time, i just feel bad for my kids, I feel like im ignoring them, I already feel like that now and that just with the prereqs. I don't think about my age to often, but I find myself thiking more about it when i see alot of young people around be already have there career going. im so tried now, geez how tired iwll I be when it actually starts,

Specializes in PBMT.

Kathryn2015- what kind of program are you in? How long will it take? Does it go throughout the summers?

I am in my 50's. I could never get a job at a hospital med/surg. I graduated with honors at 48. Any suggestions? A BSN.

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I am in my 50's. I could never get a job at a hospital med/surg. I graduated with honors at 48. Any suggestions? A BSN.

You keep trying and never give up. Someone will hire you. My classmate was 62 when she was hired as a MS tele nurse and has since successfully transitioned to case management now at 67. Networking is also the key!

Specializes in OB.

I am 43 and landed a job no problem as a new grad.

I earned my BSN at 48. The economy was very bad at that time and locally, I could not get a floor nursing job. Currently, I have over 100 client case load. This is not in a hospital. In order to move forward, it looks like I need to have the floor nursing experience. Can anyone suggest how to get in at a hospital? If they are crying for nurses, what is the roadblock for an honors graduate nurse with developmental disabilities training and many other nursing skills?

Specializes in BSN, RN-BC, NREMT, EMT-P, TCRN.

58yo and got hired right away. Northeast Florida locale.

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Thank you. I will keep trying. I have so much experience (squiggly face). It really makes no sense.

Kim

I feel you on feeling embarrassed when people making a fuss. It's for that reason, I'm actually keeping my nursing school a secret to my family. (Not my husband and kids...just everyone else) I prefer to show up to the next family thing and say something like this: "I'm quitting my job...because I got my RN license and got hired at Super Hospital". I'm already playing out this movie and moment. I'll be 41 this year. I almost feel like 40 is a rebirth. I realize I've made it 25 years in the work world....and I have at least 25 more to go. There's no reason I can't change things up and have more fun! :) BE ALL YOU CAN. #onelife

58yo and got hired right away. Northeast Florida locale.

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So encouraging! Thank you!

40 is a little old to start nursing. It is physically demanding and we all start declining at 30.

I am 60, can make 8 hours... but feel pretty beat up after. I have(younger) friends that are already on disability .

38 percent of nurses report back problems. There are many more types of injuries on this job.

Despite having the dream of nursing... the reality is ...it is BRUTAL work. Starting in your 40's , even if you only need to work 5 years to learn "raw" nursing ( an interesting choice of words as it is WILL rub you raw) is not a wise idea.

Well...isn't that living? LIFE is brutal and raw. Plus not all bodies are built the same. I rock climbed, kayaked, parachuted, sky dove, froze my fingers ice climbing........etc...etc... I've beat my body and it's never stopped me.

I could choose to accept that it's brutal and just be like...oh well...my body is old OR...I could jump all in and choose to believe that this will be another great adventure! Belief is almost everything in life.

"To enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to one's family, to bring peace to all, one must first discipline and control one's own mind."

I would 100% much prefer to pursue this new career than to ever regret not trying. I know for sure when I breathe my last breath that I won't ever say I could have...should have...almost did.....

I will say: "I did!"

In response to the school that tries to weed out over 40, men and gays....

Ha! I'd love to go head to head with this!

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