As a 40yr old working mother, should I get my RN?

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In the early stages of my career, I gained extensive experience as a medical assistant through on-the-job training, although I wasn't formally certified. Despite numerous attempts to pursue certifications in surgical technology, LPN, and others, these endeavors didn't materialize.

Transitioning into Healthcare IT in 2010 has offered me the advantages of remote work flexibility and excellent compensation. However, it hasn't fully fulfilled my passion for direct patient care, a desire I've harbored since childhood. Recently, I completed my Associates of Science degree from the University of North Georgia as a step towards my BSN, though gaining admission to their BSN program proved daunting due to its competitive nature, especially as a working mother in my 40s.

Now, I'm at a crossroads, contemplating whether it's worthwhile to continue pursuing my dream of becoming a registered nurse. While I currently enjoy a comfortable income in my remote role, the prospect of a potentially lower salary as a nurse is a significant consideration, especially given my financial responsibilities. Additionally, I can't afford to leave my job to pursue full-time education.

Considering my existing educational background and aspirations, I'm seeking advice on the most viable path forward. While exploring ASN programs, I've realized that pursuing another associate's degree would be redundant. I'm eager to explore alternative options that align with my career goals and personal circumstances. Any guidance on how to navigate this situation would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for your insights.

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You have a strong passion for direct patient care and a genuine desire to become a registered nurse despite your challenges. It's commendable that you've taken steps to further your education by completing your Associate of Science degree and considering pursuing a BSN.

So, are you wondering if it's too late to pursue your dream of becoming a registered nurse (RN)? Well, in terms of your age, 40 is still relatively young. However, it's essential to consider your life responsibilities, and only you can answer whether pursuing this path is feasible.

But remember that where there's a will, there's a way. Sometimes, the way forward only becomes apparent after you've committed to the path. You may be worried about regrets if you don't pursue your dream, and it's never too late to try.

If you want to pursue a career as an RN, it's important to have the support of your family. This can model several important values for your children.

Even children can help by understanding that it will take sacrifices from everyone, financially and otherwise. You may cut expenses by eating out less or give yourself time to study by temporarily lowering your housekeeping standards. Nursing school has a way of making you prioritize.

Given your current circumstances, you might consider several alternative pathways to becoming a registered nurse without leaving your job or pursuing another associate's degree. Universities offer online or part-time BSN programs specifically designed for working adults. These programs often allow you to continue working while completing your degree at your own pace—research various universities and their offerings to find a program that suits your schedule and educational needs.

  • Bridge programs. Look into bridge programs that allow individuals with existing healthcare experience or an associate's degree to transition into nursing. These programs often offer accelerated pathways to a BSN or MSN degree, taking into account your prior education and experience.
  • Work-study programs. Some healthcare facilities offer work-study programs for aspiring nurses. These programs typically provide financial assistance or tuition reimbursement in exchange for a commitment to work at the facility for a certain period after completing your nursing degree. This could help alleviate some of the financial concerns of pursuing further education.
  • Scholarships and financial aid. Explore scholarship opportunities and financial aid programs for adult learners pursuing nursing degrees. Many organizations and foundations offer scholarships to support non-traditional students like yourself in achieving their educational goals.

I understand that you may experience a decrease in income if you choose to switch careers and become an RN. However, not knowing your current salary, I cannot provide a more accurate assessment. It is expected to face a temporary reduction in income when switching fields. To make an informed decision, I recommend researching the potential salary for RNs a few years down the line and comparing it to your projected salary in healthcare IT.

Also, take a look at advancement opportunities in both fields. Nursing has almost unlimited pathways after the bedside, such as informatics, education, sales, infection prevention, public health and more.

Ultimately, pursuing your dream of becoming an RN will depend on weighing the potential benefits against the challenges and sacrifices involved. It's essential to carefully consider your circumstances, financial responsibilities, and career aspirations as you explore your options and determine the most viable path forward.

My last advice is to remember that you can overcome obstacles and achieve your goals with determination, perseverance, and strategic planning.

Best wishes in your decision,

Nurse Beth

 

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