I know confidentiality is considered one of the most important things in medicine, but I learned from a friend working in another country how we in the west treat confidentiality, isn't necessarily right for everyone.
My friend is from Zimbabwe, but works with me here in Europe, and she told me what is was like when HIV really got hold of her home country. She describes how all the parents died, and the grandparents were left raising the grandchildren - she banded some of these grandmothers together and now has a charity helping children.
Anyway, she was saying that even when the WHO and other powers made effective medication free for many people in third world countries like hers, people kept on dying, when they shouldn't, especially young men.
She said a lot of the doctors treated patients like they would in the west, and when they first told a young man he was HIV positive, they would tell him in utmost confidence, and outline his treatment plan, and how to take his meds and when to have follow-up appointments and when to get extra help.
The men would leave, not take their meds, and eventually die.
My colleague and friend said confidentiality is different where she is, and you would never tell a young man or woman such a diagnosis, and would automatically involved the whole family. You wouldn't even ask if the family should be there, you would automatically tell them all to be there. Then the patient with HIV became not just a family issue, but a community/village one, and the outcomes suddenly reversed and people stopped dying. It also made a huge difference in stopping parents passing on the virus to their children.
I know in the west, to do something like this goes against everything we're taught. And I'm not saying one is more right than the other, as that is not the issue, but it was really interesting to hear such a significant cultural difference.
Anyway, I'm sure I'll be picked to pieces for this. But I genuinely think it quite fascinating and hope someone out there does to.
OP, I think this is one of your better threads, I like it. Maybe someone from an HIV clinic can chime in about how often families here get involved in the plan of care (with pt's blessing, of course). I like that OP is not placing any value on one practice over another. Carry on.
Talking about cathing your friends on AN with such enthusiasm is ickky.
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Mhm, we see you up there liking those posts, Acute! ^
All kidding aside. I was the go to cath nurse on the floors. Felt like I struck gold when I got those 90 year old biddies that had fallen everything. It made me happy.
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Mhm, we see you up there liking those posts, Acute! ^
All kidding aside. I was the go to cath nurse on the floors. Felt like I struck gold when I got those 90 year old biddies that had fallen everything. It made me happy.
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