Being a new nurse can be both exciting and terrifying. You've spent years learning how to become a nurse, but how do you put that into practice? Questions like "what if I make a mistake?” or "what if I'm not really cut out to do this 'nursing' thing?” may enter your mind. Stop, take a breath, and remember you are a professional who has been getting ready for this moment; now is the time to gain experience, boost confidence, and show everyone who you are made of. Here are some tips that can help in your new nursing role. Be a Student Even though you have graduated, you are still a student – a student with a nursing degree and a nursing license. Nursing is about life-long learning, no matter how many years you have been practicing. This mindset is key to nursing and especially new nurses. With a mindset that is about learning rather than doing, not only will you be able to gain confidence, but you will also demonstrate your willingness to adapt. It may not be the way you learned in school, but does it accomplish the same goal? There are many ways to complete a task, and nursing school prepared you for one of those ways. Be a Quiet Listener Listening is a learned skill and sometimes a difficult skill to master. "Listening well is the kind of skill that benefits from not just teaching but coaching — ongoing, specialized instruction from someone who knows your personal strengths, weaknesses, and most importantly, habits"1. Listening is not just about hearing the words, it's also about receiving and processing the words, so you respond with confidence and understanding. When listening, ask yourself these simple questions: Did they share information that I didn't know? If yes, be ready to ask questions to ensure complete understanding. If you are confident in the topic, listen to what they have to say – keeping in the student mindset – to pick up any tidbits to expand your own knowledge on the subject. Do I need to respond? Responding is a sign of acknowledgment and can also help develop strong connections with your colleagues. Be in the Moment Let's face it, nurses are busy and can be distracted from the tasks at hand – even though we are excellent multi-taskers! Being in the moment is intentional: focusing on one thing at a time, paying attention to emotions you are feeling, and responding – not reacting. Make the best of the moment by letting the moment guide you. What cues are you seeing from your patient? Should you hold their hand and let them cry? Should you let them be angry? How you respond at the moment shows compassion and demonstrates value to others. Nursing is not just about knowledge and skills, it is about connecting with others and making them feel valued. "Nurses have the opportunity to focus on empathy, ensuring that the patient feels valued, respected and comfortable with their care"2. Be Willing You are excited, you are eager, and you want to show what you've learned in school. Hold on to that eagerness with confidence and caution. Volunteer to help with an assignment, offer to help another nurse if they seem overwhelmed, and always be willing to say 'yes' when offered an opportunity to learn. Be willing to set aside your biases and be open to whatever this journey brings your way. However, don't be too willing to do something if that something doesn't seem right or that something is a skill you have not been trained to do – you know your abilities and limitations the best, so be willing but be honest. Be Confident To build confidence, plan and organize your work – be prepared. If you start by being prepared, you will feel less anxious and be able to stay calm when things don't go as planned – and we know they won't. Whatever comes your way, be confident in your ability to manage the situation, and don't be afraid to ask for help. Celebrate the little successes: starting an IV on the first attempt, finding your way around the unit on your own, and completing your charting by the end of the shift. You are mastering the art of nursing, and you need to celebrate ... you got this! Be Yourself You went into nursing to help people, not to be perfect. Let the real you shine. You get scared, you get excited, you make mistakes, you get tired, you ask questions, and most importantly – you are human! There is no such thing as a perfect human, so don't try to be perfect. Be the best YOU that people get to meet. With the right mindset, awareness, and willingness, you will be well on your way to being the nurse you want to be and that your patients deserve ... well done! References/Resources 1 How to Become a Better Listener: Harvard Business Publishing 2 5 Essential Skills for Compassionate Care in Nursing: Kirby Bates Associates How to be more present: headspace Build Confidence as a Nurse: 5 Things to Try on Your Next Shift: RNlessons 4 Down Vote Up Vote × About Alicia Otto Alicia Otto has 29+ years in nursing with experience in hospital, ambulatory, leadership, and academics. Dedicated to helping the next generation of nurses succeed! 1 Article 2 Posts Share this post Share on other sites