Strong vs. weak RN

Nurses General Nursing

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Hi, in your opinion, what could I do to be viewed at as a "strong" nurse vs a "weak" nurse. I feel that on my floor, (a busy CVICU) that the charge nurses see me as just a mediocre nurse. Not weak, I've been there forever it seems, just not very strong. Even though it would seem silly to you, I'd like to learn charge nurse duties, and I've been seeing that in the absence of a regular charge nurse, they will place a nurse in charge who has been there for half the time I have been. I've heard them say (when trying to chose the shifts charge RN) "Oh, Jane is a strong nurse, she can do it". And believe me, I've asked the manager, but apparently I'm not in the clique! Now, even though I have a strong personality, when it comes to work, and in a group, I often find myself following & being pushed out of the way. I know what to do in certain situations, I guess I'm just scared of doing the wrong thing with a group of cliquey nurses. I'm on top of my patient care, rarely needing assistance/advice (they actually look DOWN on people who ask 'too many questions'!!). Maybe I just answered my own question. I guess I need more self confidence. But in a group of cliques, where they ALL think they're right, how do I shine?

Specializes in M/S, MICU, CVICU, SICU, ER, Trauma, NICU.
haha I like that. Maybe I will, good advice. But, I don't want to step on peoples toes, but is that part of the job? Why do people get mad at those trying to lead (not necessarily me, just anyone)? Should I stop worrying about making people mad, and just try to lead, solve problems, etc?

You don't have to step on toes to get the job done. I'm not saying you might not occasionally bump into those toes, but if that is part of your responsibilities---well, there should be no issue.

Be assertive and stop trying to please people. You need to self-validate, and do the right thing--work well and take be a good patient advocate.

Other than that, be like a horse and put on your blinders. You need to focus on the important stuff, not people's issues.

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