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Hi , I was working on my probationary period at one of unionized organization, where I was encountered with one of student and we had talk 3 times and while she was leaving the workspace she said me bye and left : I took my break and was walking out while I noticed this person was sitting in car and I just said them hi and they respond hi and said oh you off too I was like no just came for break and yiu nit leave yet she said no just about to leave and also added sorry I bugged you and didnot ask we can talk she answered no it is all good I am okey and then I told her are you new here she said yes and asked me same ,
we had good 3 time interaction and I told you are preety , kind person you will ahve bright future, she answered thankyou just trying as well I was on my break and said I m new tot his town too do not know too many people she replied me too and I asked I only go gym to stay fit and do you workout to stay fit she answered yes and I was like oh good for you !
And then I added OK I m getting late will go back so you want to saty connected over anything social , phone she said yea I am okey with phone she gave phone and I said are you okey with text or call if needed she said I am totally fine and I told her okey I m living gave her a call and said that is my number I will keep your data confindential hoping you do same to keep your and mine privacy and l left she remained there, I texted her thanks for stop there it was nice talking and wished her.and
2nd text I did can I know something and no reply came I never texted back after 3 days I saw this person she gave me bad eyes and I was confused what happen I try to call but it did not go through to clear that my intentions were only to be friend as I am new in town but in morning she complained to hr that I approached here inappropriate way and asked for phone and called her fit and preety and they ran investigation and fired me no evidence
and they said you left the same time she did I told them I did not go straight to her I was on walk and I saw her and said hi even took her verbal consent I was shocked and they said respectful behaviour and prevention of harassment and violence but not flagged me as a bad employee or not eligible to rehire, but they said they will also let nursing board know about the issue
So I am only concerned how does nursing board deal with this as I am already terminated do they fine or assign a course or I am totally clueless please guide me an answer I never touched or sent any bad message or even said anything sexual. I t was misunderstanding and I even said to hr but due to probation they terminated me I am working on other job from 5 months with clear records
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Hi , I was working on my probationary period at one of unionized organization, where I was encountered with one of student and we had talk 3 times and while she was leaving the workspace she said me bye and left : I took my break and was walking out while I noticed this person was sitting in car and I just said them hi and they respond hi and said oh you off too I was like no just came for break and yiu nit leave yet she said no just about to leave and also added sorry I bugged you and didnot ask we can talk she answered no it is all good I am okey and then I told her are you new here she said yes and asked me same ,
we had good 3 time interaction and I told you are preety , kind person you will ahve bright future, she answered thankyou just trying as well I was on my break and said I m new tot his town too do not know too many people she replied me too and I asked I only go gym to stay fit and do you workout to stay fit she answered yes and I was like oh good for you !
And then I added OK I m getting late will go back so you want to saty connected over anything social , phone she said yea I am okey with phone she gave phone and I said are you okey with text or call if needed she said I am totally fine and I told her okey I m living gave her a call and said that is my number I will keep your data confindential hoping you do same to keep your and mine privacy and l left she remained there, I texted her thanks for stop there it was nice talking and wished her.and
2nd text I did can I know something and no reply came I never texted back after 3 days I saw this person she gave me bad eyes and I was confused what happen I try to call but it did not go through to clear that my intentions were only to be friend as I am new in town but in morning she complained to hr that I approached here inappropriate way and asked for phone and called her fit and preety and they ran investigation and fired me no evidence
and they said you left the same time she did I told them I did not go straight to her I was on walk and I saw her and said hi even took her verbal consent I was shocked and they said respectful behaviour and prevention of harassment and violence but not flagged me as a bad employee or not eligible to rehire, but they said they will also let nursing board know about the issue
So I am only concerned how does nursing board deal with this as I am already terminated do they fine or assign a course or I am totally clueless please guide me an answer I never touched or sent any bad message or even said anything sexual. I t was misunderstanding and I even said to hr but due to probation they terminated me I am working on other job from 5 months with clear records
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