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Do you think female doctors ever have the same conversation?
Person: What do you do?
Female doctor: I'm a doctor
Person: Oh, you're a female doctor? Wow, thats interesting.
Probably not....
Here in Texas, they're actually frequently referred to as "ladydoctors" (it's one word in Texan, not two). I find that much more demeaning than the term "male nurse" for some reason.
As a nurse, you'll learn to just shake your head, smile, and keep going. This is an appropriate time to do just that.
I remember when I was in school and working as a tech, the patients would say "oh, you're going to be a male nurse?" and I would reply "well, it would be pretty tough for me to be a female nurse." they usually either got confused or shut up pretty quickly. When I get that name now, I usually still mention that it's a given that since I have a goatee and am a nurse that I am both male and a nurse and the term is technically correct but I prefer to just be their nurse, or Erik, as that is my real first name. But "hey you" is usually a good way to get my attention too, as long as you don't abuse it. :)
anyone ever get that one? "hey you... the guy/male/dude nurse!" as you walk past a patient's room? jeez people just say "excuse me!"
In my part of the country, being a doctor and female raises very little eyebrows. However, being a nurse and being male occasionally still does. For the most part, I believe it has to do more as to why I would choose a profession of perceived less status and money than for one that offers more. At times, my response is simply one or the other...I do not have the headaches of billing, or having my payments reduced by insurance companies and Medicare/Medicaid for my hard work. or my not needing to worry how I am going to have to cough up an ever growing malpractice insurance premium, often totalling in the thousands. It is also nice to be able to clock out and go home without getting that 3am phone call for Tylenol. :) Pick or choose....many patients finally get it. Sometimes, nursing has a lot more going for it that is often left unsaid. Plus, the pay is not so bad.
quakerkid
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Anyone else annoyed when people call you a "male nurse"? Maybe it goes something like this:
Person: What do you do?
You: I'm a nurse.
Person: Oh, you're a male nurse? Wow, thats interesting.
It annoys me because, no - I'm not a male nurse. I'm a nurse. Being a male has nothing to do with it. A member does not make you more or less qualified.
Do you think female doctors ever have the same conversation?
Person: What do you do?
Female doctor: I'm a doctor
Person: Oh, you're a female doctor? Wow, thats interesting.
Probably not....