I am actually down in San Diego, so in my case, it is not such a huge move. But still, job, apt...all have to be found. Whole CA is tough, and I can see that. NYC on the other hand seems to be easier....
Yeah, I agree, we are able to survive because my huband is working as well and makes more than I do. We still rent, although we do pay quite a bit for our apt...add to this school loans...so anyway,...