L&DWannabe replied to sleepybunny005's topic in Psychiatric
What defines "real" is just that the majority agree. Imagine you saw a man walk into your bedroom and start talking to you. You are fully awake. You can hear his voice, you can see every detail. You...
L&DWannabe replied to cradlecrewer's topic in Ob/Gyn
This is so true. My nurse was "ok" but definitely offered no emotional support or useful advice. When I was in transition, she just laughed at my breathing sounds saying "Well, that's a first!" (Of...
L&DWannabe replied to cradlecrewer's topic in Ob/Gyn
Do you even realize how hard it is to have a pain-med free birth at a hospital? Well, I DO! I managed to be induced and chose NO PAIN MEDS at all- due to my preferences. But your attitude is really...
Oh my gosh I am sooo sorry! That is aweful! Especially the fact you are 23 and just graduated! MAN! Ugh, I swear the world can be so unfair at times. I feel for you. How has your family reacted to...
L&DWannabe replied to Spritenurse1210's topic in General Nursing
What are you talking about? I've already taken those classes. And I enjoyed them as well as my teacher. Am I claiming to be the know-it-all? No. And...homophones? It sounds like know-it-all's watch...
L&DWannabe replied to cradlecrewer's topic in Ob/Gyn
I'm willing to guess YOU haven't been a patient giving birth recently, but Drs are TELLING their patients to come in if they 1) water breaks (contractions or not) 2) bleeding 3) contractions. This is...
L&DWannabe replied to Spritenurse1210's topic in General Nursing
Oh my gosh, you're one of those students that drive me nuts! Your teacher is not a "know-it-all" he is a TEACHER. Everything about his description gives him the right and responsibility to throw fact...
L&DWannabe replied to cradlecrewer's topic in Ob/Gyn
As a nursing student, (future L&D hopefull) and woman who recently gave birth in 2006 and 2008, I understand both sides of this. I can understand how it is difficult to be a nurse, trained and...
Wow! I didn't know that! So that's why so many experienced mommies give birth to twins! I can think of tons of examples, I just never really connected the
L&DWannabe replied to littleoleme's topic in General Nursing
It depends on how "good" at school you are. Is school typically hard for you to begin with? I have a 2 year old, a 6 month old, and I may be pregnant now and I do fine with school- I got all A's. I am...
L&DWannabe replied to THAT Nurse.'s topic in General Nursing
Vaseline...it's better than any lotion! For the cracks, use Bacitricin (a little tube of medicine...it's found by the neosprorin in the pharmacy section) My husband's hands dry out so bad they bleed...
An associate degree will get you out and working faster- but if you are a stay-at-home mom and don't need the immediate income- plus have further goals knowing you need a Bachelor's degree- I would...
The difference between my grades when I study and don't study can be an A compared to a D-. I HAVE to study- and when I do- I do excellent- if I don't...well- I might as well not take the test. The...
My advice? Don't EVER fire yourself! What your feeling is 100% NORMAL- not the exception. You will only be doing yourself a disservice by prematurely abandoning a "goal" job just because of self-doubt...
HA! I just got my associates degree and decided I wanted to be a nurse instead of what I was planning to go into...so, all my prereqs are done...and guess when I start nursing school???? Fall semester...
There is a difference between being aggressive and being assertive. In life you MUST be assertive to get anywhere. It is your job as a nurse to delegate to the CNA's. I would demand their respect or...
Not everyone can just stick up for themselves. I happen to be that type of person who HATES conflict and would suffer just to not disturb the peace. So in a case like this, it's really not fair to...
L&DWannabe replied to oncologynurse77's topic in General Nursing
While I do believe maturity level has more to do with one's personality than age- age can't be dis-counted. Age and life experience will give you a tougher hide. Depending upon one's life experiences...
This is very inspirational! Great responses so far! I will be a nursing student soon- doing some more prereqs that I hadn't taken because I was going for another major. I was going to do Ultrasound...
L&DWannabe replied to suewolfie08's topic in Ob/Gyn
Your nurse shouldn't have a problem with your doula- she is no different than a mom or a sister there for you for support- only that she is much better trained in helping you cope during your labor....