VanessaLee13 replied to tatarn2b2007's topic in Ohio Nursing
Don't be scared. The only reason I left the Clinic is because I moved out of state. Most of the people I used to work with in one of the ICUs are still there. There are down sides of it, but there...
VanessaLee13 replied to VanessaLee13's topic in Nurses Recovery
Oh so very true! :) At the drug rehab where my husband works, they have to actually watch the guys pee in the cup to make sure it is their urine. There was a fake member going around trying to get...
VanessaLee13 replied to VanessaLee13's topic in Nurses Recovery
And I very well may not be able to live with myself either. School doesn't start until late August, so there is some time. Even though I have decided not to call now, does not mean that I can't change...
VanessaLee13 replied to VanessaLee13's topic in Nurses Recovery
:) One can only hope. My husband works in a drug rehab now, and is an AA sponsor. It is definitely amazing how someone can turn their life around and begin to help others when previously, they could...
VanessaLee13 replied to VanessaLee13's topic in Nurses Recovery
Oh, and as a response to the anonymous suggestion that I previously thought was a good idea...anonymous accusations would not be taken very seriously in my opinion, and would be a waste of time. But...
VanessaLee13 replied to VanessaLee13's topic in Nurses Recovery
OK, well thank you to everyone for your responses. I just had a long talk with my dad about this, and remembering back to nursing school....it took awhile before we were able to pass meds, and even...
VanessaLee13 replied to VanessaLee13's topic in Nurses Recovery
It is perfectly fine if I get a response opposite of what I originally thought I should do. And this is why I am asking if I should do anything...I don't know if it would make any difference, and I...
VanessaLee13 replied to VanessaLee13's topic in Nurses Recovery
I also believe in karma. Anonymously sounds like a good plan. And not even saying his name gives them the opportunity to drug test everyone (since as I said, I don't remember being tested when...
VanessaLee13 replied to VanessaLee13's topic in Nurses Recovery
I know, I have been tested at every hospital job I have had. 'Funny' side note...the only job I have *not* been drug tested for was a home health position. How a place who has nurses in patients'...
VanessaLee13 replied to VanessaLee13's topic in Nurses Recovery
As the wife of a (now recovering) addict, I have learned that I am not a co-dependent. My concern has nothing to do with J and wanting to get him clean, or my gain in this. My only "mission" is to...
VanessaLee13 replied to VanessaLee13's topic in Nurses Recovery
He has admitted to doing everything I have said. I am 100% sure he has relapsed. He and my husband are (were) quite close. He was drinking in front of my husband, his girlfriend has found his needles...
VanessaLee13 replied to VanessaLee13's topic in Nurses Recovery
Thanks, I agree. And for anyone who knows anything about drug addiction, keeping things a secret is one of the most powerful tools an addict has in continuing to
VanessaLee13 replied to VanessaLee13's topic in Nurses Recovery
I have tried to remember if I was drug tested when I started school there, but I can't remember. I do remember being drug tested at all my other hospital jobs, so I am thinking I was not tested when...