Hello all, I've got a bit of a side topic for you. I've been hoping and planning to begin nursing school for well over a year and it's looking like I can this coming fall. I also have two very close friends, whom I've known for over ten years, and the three of us have very open and honest friendships. One of them told me last night that they were discussing, and both of them are bit concerned that nursing is not a real dream of mine, just some sort of phase. That kind of threw me. I value their opinions, though I know my decisions don't have to be dictated by their opinions. And I know they'll support me if I go for it, but the fact that they can't see me pursuing it long term concerns me some.
I know no one here can answer for me whether nursing is in fact for me, but did any of you have friends, family, etc. who doubted you? What was the outcome, how did it work out? Thoughts?
You're probably worried they may be on to something. Confront this fear. Sounds to me like its really more about you than them. Everyone has misgivings about the decisions they make.If you dont support your own decision chances are you'll falter once someone calls your bluff.
So reconcile with your decisions. You are your own biggest doubter at times like these. But when you work had and if you love what you do, things will fall into place. Your loved ones, your friends will know if your happy and successful... and they will give you their blessings. You've got to be able to give yourself YOUR blessings first!
As for my experience, i quit medschool after my first year despite being in the dean;s list. My heart was not in. My mom my 2 bestfriends since high school (who are in med school too) were not so happy. My heart was not in it. Im happy to say that though I have doubters at times, the fact that I know nursing is what I want gets me through it all. It took a while for me to get where I am knowing what it is that I want but now, Im more than excited and happy to show everyone what life I chose!
My family has been so encouraging, BUT...there is this one doubter...I have chalked it up to jealousy..she never finished college. No one knows me like I know myself, I have 100% faith I will graduate, that's all that matters. Your friends might know you well, but ultimately you decide...best of luck!
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When I was going to LPN school my father told me I would never make it through. I think part of me wanted to prove him wrong. I love nursing and I have loved it every single day for the eleven years I have been practicing. I have never mentioned to my father anything about his doubt in me, but I will never forget it. It hurt.
You're probably worried they may be on to something. Confront this fear. Sounds to me like its really more about you than them. Everyone has misgivings about the decisions they make.If you dont support your own decision chances are you'll falter once someone calls your bluff.
So reconcile with your decisions. You are your own biggest doubter at times like these. But when you work had and if you love what you do, things will fall into place. Your loved ones, your friends will know if your happy and successful... and they will give you their blessings. You've got to be able to give yourself YOUR blessings first!
As for my experience, i quit medschool after my first year despite being in the dean;s list. My heart was not in. My mom my 2 bestfriends since high school (who are in med school too) were not so happy. My heart was not in it. Im happy to say that though I have doubters at times, the fact that I know nursing is what I want gets me through it all. It took a while for me to get where I am knowing what it is that I want but now, Im more than excited and happy to show everyone what life I chose!
Good luck!
I think you hit the nail on the head. In the end they can't really know how much I want to, only I know. Thank you!
Thanks all, for your replies, you gave a needed boost! Also, per some suggestions, I think I'll call the hospital nearby and see about shadowing a nurse.
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You're probably worried they may be on to something. Confront this fear. Sounds to me like its really more about you than them. Everyone has misgivings about the decisions they make.If you dont support your own decision chances are you'll falter once someone calls your bluff.
So reconcile with your decisions. You are your own biggest doubter at times like these. But when you work had and if you love what you do, things will fall into place. Your loved ones, your friends will know if your happy and successful... and they will give you their blessings. You've got to be able to give yourself YOUR blessings first!
As for my experience, i quit medschool after my first year despite being in the dean;s list. My heart was not in. My mom my 2 bestfriends since high school (who are in med school too) were not so happy. My heart was not in it. Im happy to say that though I have doubters at times, the fact that I know nursing is what I want gets me through it all. It took a while for me to get where I am knowing what it is that I want but now, Im more than excited and happy to show everyone what life I chose!
Good luck!