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Hello all! I recently had a shift that left a bitter taste in my mouth. One of my patients was a coworker from another unit. Let's call her "Claire." Claire works in the ED and is a well-regarded nurse. She received many gifts from colleagues and doctors offices, and I responded to many calls during my shift of physicians "just seeing how she's doing." I know Claire fairly well, and she's a very kind person.

I did NOT know she was a terrible patient. She kept a list at the bedside and made note of all the "errors" I made during my twelve hour shift. For example, she was due an antibiotic. I scanned her bracelet, asked her name and DOB, scanned the med, administered the med. Then, she asked for a tylenol for fever...and then a pain pill...and don't you know she can't take her pain pill without Zofran? So after my FOURTH trip to the med room, I scanned her bracelet, scanned the med, and administered. She claimed I made an error by not asking her name and DOB the fourth time.

Another time, she claimed I entered a drug into the IV pump incorrectly and reprogrammed it herself. It was a med you could give over a 1.5 hour to 3 hour window. I programmed it for 1.5 hours. She had a TON of IV antibiotics and with her IV being a 20 in her forearm, I figured 1.5 hours would be fine. My charge nurse agreed with me.

She then requested I bring in new IV flush bag, primary tubing, and secondary tubing with every antibiotic. She would stop the programmed flush after the abx administration, and even once claimed I caused phlebitis by running two abx one right after the other. However, there was a 20 cc programmed flush, and I even alternated IV sites with every antibiotic.

She has already gotten a colleague of mine fired due to the "errors" she made. I made a ton of narratives regarding the situation, and the nurse and house supervisor were both aware during the situation.

Has anyone else experienced this? No matter what I did, I was wrong in her eyes. I'm not really worried about it, I just wished I had handled the situation better.

On 7/30/2019 at 6:53 PM, prmenrs said:

Within her dietary restrictions, bring her a "treat" from the gift shop. Not saying that bribery works, but---it does.

I'm sure this comment was made with good intentions but this is highly inadvisable under the circumstances. ?

It is not a therapeutic act. There are legitimate ways to work on developing a rapport in a difficult situation. Unfortunately, this is a cheap and manipulative (attempted) shortcut that will be a barrier to this patient developing trusting rapports with other HCPs and possibly even with the one who does this. Besides, this RN patient knows this is inappropriate, and will quickly be deciding how to use that against the one who does it. (That isn't the main reason not to do it, though).

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On 7/27/2019 at 11:18 PM, beekindRN said:

Update: I'm back in this unit but do not have her as a patient. I have been commended by two house supervisors and three nurses on how I handled the situation. Management is VERY aware, everything was documented as close to real-time as possible, and incident reports were filed. She apparently tried to get another nurse fired during dayshift yesterday...yikes!

Y'all wanna know the real kicker? She put in for a work transfer to our unit....heck no!

Thanks for all your advice! Our Dean of Nursing had a loooong talk with her earlier today.

Holy H-E-double hockeysticks. Cheers to you. I don't know if I would have been so graceful.

As a patient myself this summer (first time in a hospital setting since I left the hospital setting in 2010) I have SO much respect for you. My nurse was caring for five other post-surgical women on the gyn floor. Crazy. Just crazy.

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