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I was inspired by all of the wonderful nurses I work with to write this and hope for more discussion. For some background, I am coming up on my third year of nursing. I started as a new graduate nurse on the same unit I work on now. It is a neuroscience intensive care unit that also handles trauma-surgery patients at a level 1 trauma center. Starting on my unit was intimidating knowing the high acuity of care it provides, but I was determined to thrive and learn. My determination was met with great support by my preceptor, who very plainly told me day one that the ICU is not for everyone. Her intent was honesty, and she reassured me that my success is her goal. I was never discouraged from asking any and all (read: so many) questions. She also told me something that I think was vital to our success, that she would never be mad at me as long as I did not lie. All mistakes were met with education and reassurance, not a form of hazing.
I have been told awful stories by other new grads about their difficult transitions to their units, and that they were affected by the culture of "eat you young" that nursing has been known for. Letting them drown in an assignment that was not appropriate for their experience level. Not providing guidance, belittling them for not knowing something, yet not being the resource the experienced nurse should be. They struggled during their three twelve hour shifts, having pre-shift anxiety weekly. Having their mental health affected by a job that they worked so hard to get, all while being underpaid.
I never experienced this type of treatment on my unit, and I believe it is why I was able to advance to the place I am at now. I was and continue to be treated with respect. One of the most important things my unit practices is open communication. Feedback is given when reporting back to the nurse after your shift, if need be. Management checks in with new grad nurses weekly. Each new grad has a resource assigned next to them for their first two months of shifts off orientation. The preceptor coordinator also is communicating and checking in with the new grad and preceptor nurse, making sure all needs are being met.
I'm now into my third year of nursing and I am confidently taking care of our sickest patients. I'm becoming a resource for other younger nurses during our shifts. I still look for help when I need it, knowing that my resources are there and ready for me to help. I also serve as charge nurse from time to time. Eating your young breeds for a toxic environment that leads to worsening staffing issues and lack of safety for our patients. What do you all think?