Published Dec 18, 2023
Jessie0990
1 Post
Hi,
My name is Jess and I graduated with my ASN in May 2023. I have been working at my first nursing job for about 4-5 months now and I am really struggling. I originally graduated with a bachelors in health sciences and worked as a medical assistant at a private practice. Once Covid happened I decided to go into nursing because I loved working as a medical assistant. I loved coming in and doing the same thing everyday and knowing what to expect. When I first graduated from nursing I really wanted a clinic or outpatient surgery position but was told you need at least a year of med surg. So I took a position on a med surg unit and I hate it. I cry almost every single day at work and I feel like I made a mistake. I can feel the other nurses on my unit being annoyed with me. I am not scared to ask questions and I heavily rely on others at work and I feel like everyone thinks I am too needy but I am SO overwhelmed. I couldn't get through a shift without help. I know that it is normal to feel overwhelmed and anxious as a new grad nurse but I can't live like this. I dread going into work so much that I can barley sleep the night before a shift. All I think about on my days off is how much I hate this job and how stuck I feel. I am so tired on my days off that I just sleep and worry about my next shift. I have stopped doing my hobbies and haven't seen friends still I started, I just always feel too tired. I hate the 12 hour long shifts, I live 30 minutes away from my hospital so I wake up go to work come home and sleep. I hate not being able to take a full 30 minute lunch without interruptions. I have days where I have zero break at all. Last week I was so busy I worked 13.5 hours without a full 30 min break. I hate working different days every week and never being able to get into a routine. I honestly truly hate made surg and never knowing what I am going to walk into everyday. This isn't the job or place for me and I do not know what to do. Every job I apply to I get rejected because I am a new grad with only 4-5 months under my belt. But truly at this point this job has left such a sour taste in my mouth that I don't even know if I want to be a nurse. I feel so selfish for feeling like this because I truly love helping people BUT I have found that it is hard to like helping people when I am miserable myself. I have found that I do not like the pressure of having 5 patients lives in my hands. especially when I feel overwhelmed and that I cannot keep up with the workload. At this point I just want a boring job where I do the same thing everyday. I'm craving a boring 8-5 job that will give me a lunch break and a job that I am not terrified to go into everyday. A job where I can actually enjoy my days off and not feel like I am drowning all day at work. I feel like I am at my breaking point and I don't know where to turn. I so desperately want to put my two weeks in but I need a new job or at least a new direction I can turn to before I can do that. Does anyone have any advice on careers or other nursing options for me? I have a bachelors in health sciences and an associates in nursing. I am sorry for this long post, I just needed to vent. I just want to start enjoying my life while working a job that I don't absolutely hate.
Jo89, LPN
13 Posts
Have you thought about applying to assisted living homes? You see mostly the same residents and it's more of the same routine. You can also most likely do 8 hour shifts and get a rotating set schedule. It's not the only option but something to think about.