Need advise from experienced psych nurses

[BadBird]

My 15 yr. old daughter was charged with assault for hitting and choking another girl at school. I attempted to bring her to see a psychologist but she refused to come into the office, she made threats agains me to her friends and the school principal called and told me that my daughter wanted to kill me when she turned 18. I took her to the ER to get her 302'd but because she didn't have a actual "plan" they denied it. I don't know how they denied it because she did not speak one word to anyone, when I pulled up to the ER she took off and I had to call the police to bring her in, she was uncooperative with them and they brought her in in handcuffs. She refuses counseling, they won't 302 her and force counseling because of a "no plan" thing, I think she does have a plan but since she won't talk to anyone who knows. The school isn't any help. Now what do I do with her?

[Tiggur]

i have three teenagers in the house and they are a hand full in anycase just being teenagers .....my heart goes out to you ... hang in there ...