I have been in nursing for 7 years. I have been absolutely miserable. Every position I have had started and ended in a very bad way. I have been called everything except human. I am tired of the bullying, name-calling, individual put-down sessions with collegues where I am given all the reasons why I should not be a nurse. In every case? I could trust no one. As sure as I thought I could trust them? As sure as I thought my preceptor would help me? I found that instead, they were turning their back on me. They all spread lies about mistakes that never happened. Or, if I asked too many questions, then they would go and tell the manager that I needed to go through nursing school again. It was interesting how the "he-said, she-said that I did" turned into something that cost me my job. The "in-crowd" generally made their choice from day one. They knew nothing about me. But, they knew they did not want me on their unit. While they had no proof to back up their statements? It was all that was needed to get me out the door and make them happy.
Now, I am going to graduate school for healthcare infomatics with a certification in IT security. This program takes somewhere along the lines of 65 credits. It will be 2012 before I graduate. I made my choice..after my last miserable job. I deserve better than this. I deserve to be happy. I deserve a job I feel I can depend on.
That said? I have been unemployed for 8 months. I would accept another nursing job if I could find one. But, I can't. Still, it remains that I want out of nursing. So? Do I really want to do that? Not exactly. I would have to become some what of an actor to make the hiring manager believe that I did.
My question is? What are my options now? I need a job that will get me through graduate school. I hope at that point, I can find a position with a company that designs software programs for healthcare institutions or the IT department of a major hospital chain.
I really don't have any other experience other than my nursing background. While I was in college, I worked in retail,for minimum wage as a cashier. That is the only non-nursing position I ever had. I need options. I need a decent job. I don't mean bagging burgers or groceries. Although? It might come to that. I need the money regardless.
I hope that some of you here can offer me suggestions. I have no clue where to go or what to do now. All I know is this: I can't put up with the high-school bullying, name-calling, crap anymore. I don't need anyone else telling me I don't belong in nursing or that I am too "stupid" to do the job. I have had it with all that.
I hope that I find some understanding and some sort of direction for my future.
thank you
the RN (retarded nurse..get it?) heard it too many times...
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I have been in nursing for 7 years. I have been absolutely miserable. Every position I have had started and ended in a very bad way. I have been called everything except human. I am tired of the bullying, name-calling, individual put-down sessions with collegues where I am given all the reasons why I should not be a nurse. In every case? I could trust no one. As sure as I thought I could trust them? As sure as I thought my preceptor would help me? I found that instead, they were turning their back on me. They all spread lies about mistakes that never happened. Or, if I asked too many questions, then they would go and tell the manager that I needed to go through nursing school again. It was interesting how the "he-said, she-said that I did" turned into something that cost me my job. The "in-crowd" generally made their choice from day one. They knew nothing about me. But, they knew they did not want me on their unit. While they had no proof to back up their statements? It was all that was needed to get me out the door and make them happy.
Now, I am going to graduate school for healthcare infomatics with a certification in IT security. This program takes somewhere along the lines of 65 credits. It will be 2012 before I graduate. I made my choice..after my last miserable job. I deserve better than this. I deserve to be happy. I deserve a job I feel I can depend on.
That said? I have been unemployed for 8 months. I would accept another nursing job if I could find one. But, I can't. Still, it remains that I want out of nursing. So? Do I really want to do that? Not exactly. I would have to become some what of an actor to make the hiring manager believe that I did.
My question is? What are my options now? I need a job that will get me through graduate school. I hope at that point, I can find a position with a company that designs software programs for healthcare institutions or the IT department of a major hospital chain.
I really don't have any other experience other than my nursing background. While I was in college, I worked in retail,for minimum wage as a cashier. That is the only non-nursing position I ever had. I need options. I need a decent job. I don't mean bagging burgers or groceries. Although? It might come to that. I need the money regardless.
I hope that some of you here can offer me suggestions. I have no clue where to go or what to do now. All I know is this: I can't put up with the high-school bullying, name-calling, crap anymore. I don't need anyone else telling me I don't belong in nursing or that I am too "stupid" to do the job. I have had it with all that.
I hope that I find some understanding and some sort of direction for my future.
thank you
the RN (retarded nurse..get it?) heard it too many times...