Desperate for advice!!!!

[dbledutchs]

Okay, I really need some advice, found this forum, everyone seems really helpful and warm, so I was hoping to pick a few brains.

My husband and I owned a business together and we have three children that I have stayed home with for 6 years. In February my husband was injured and we now have to sell our business. He actually got another job, that isn't physical at all, and is doing a lot better.

We decided that it was time for me to go back to something. I've been wanting to go in the medical field for about three years now, so I figured this was my chance. I applied at a local LPN school and was just accepted (I'm so proud of me!!). I also applied to a local CNA program that will train you for free if you sign up to work for the hospital for a year. My question is, we could really use the money right now, but I would really like to go to school, because it's only a year. I'm afraid that if I do the CNA thing I will never move on because there will never be a time that we don't need the money.

Can you work and go to school at the same time? My kids are 11, 5 and 3, two are in school and my baby will be starting preschool in September (3 days a week).

I want to earn money, but I want to bite the bullet and just go and get my LPN.

Any advice would be so helpful. Thank you so much.

Marie

[dbledutchs]

I want to thank everyone for their advice, it's really helped me through this process.

I talked to the nurse manager today, and she said that she would be flexible and help me through school, she also said that once I become an LPN, she would be interested in hiring me because I would already know the facility.

So, I'm going to try it, if it gets too much, I'll just have to leave the CNA job and focus on school. But if they are willing to help, then why not just give it a shot!!

Thanks again!

Marie

[eligrace]

I started nursing school when my daughter was 7 months old. The college I picked had an on-site daycare so I could visit her in between classes. Not sure if that was more for her or for me. I had tremendous support of my family! When I had something that I really needed to focus on, my mother would come over and play with her or we would go to her house.

Your sister is not only being disgraceful, she is hitting below the belt. You are certainly not being a bad mother by showing them the value of education, commitment, and determination. They will see the work you are putting into this and the profession that you have chosen to help people. You can be a tremendous role model for your children.

It will be hard going to school with children at home. There are times when you will feel guilty and like your missing out. But, just remember, you're not. It is a juggling act (we could work in a circus after this) but with good support, you and your family will do great!

As for your sister, that is up to you how to handle her. Personally I would remind her that you and your family decide what is best for your family and that she could be supporting you in this.

The very best of luck to you!

[McDraw8]

Keep tuning here for people that would help you get through the program! Im balancing both LPN school and working part time. It's taking its toll but I will finish the program this year. Its true that sacrifice is needed to finish the program. I barely go out anymore and social life is dull but i know in the end it will be worth it. So keep focus and goodluck!!!!!!