Is it possible to find part-time as a new grad so I can spend time with my husband?

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Hi Nurse Beth,

I went back to school in Jan 2021 to change my career from marketing to nursing. After 20+ years of being in corporate marketing I wanted more. I wanted a change. I want a more rewarding career with flexibility. I love medical / health education, so I decided to go for nutrient. Fast-forward to 2024, I have one more pre-requisite left before I apply for a part time nursing program (my husband travels 3-4 days a week his job which is a family business and I need to take care of our 7 year old so I thought part-time would be best). I'm holding a perfect 4.0 and have volunteered at our local hospital for over 400 hours so I could be a strong candidate. However, lately I'm struggling as I realized that once I graduate I can only work the days my husband is home and that means we will see each other 4 days a month if I do 3x12 hour shifts. I was wondering is it possible to find a part time or per diem position as a new grad? Background about me: I'm 47 and I have three kids. Two will be headed to college in 2 years, my youngest just turned 7. We have zero family support (the closest is my father in law who lives and hour away and quite honestly doesn't want to help with our kids). I'm debating on quitting at this point because I realize I don't want to put more strain on our marriage. I'm so sad and having a hard time dealing with this loss. The only way I would actually move forward, but that is if there's a chance I can get a part-time or per diem position after I graduate, but I just don't know if that's reality hence why I'm coming to you to ask. Thanks!

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The nature of practicing as a nurse is that you only start to learn when you graduate. Working a few years full-time to understand the role would be best. Only then should you go to part-time or per diem.

Your situation's complex, but let's break it down to explore possible solutions and help you make an informed decision.

Nursing Career Flexibility

  • Part-Time Positions. Many healthcare facilities offer part-time nurse positions, but availability might vary by location and the specific healthcare setting (hospitals, clinics, long-term care facilities, etc.). Part-time positions may have regular and predictable schedules, which could help balance family responsibilities. However, typically, part-time positions require a certain amount of independence and go to experienced nurses.
  • Per Diem Positions. Per diem positions are typically more flexible, allowing nurses to choose their working days based on availability and allowing an organization to cancel you at the last minute. However, working per diem is not recommended for a new graduate.

Exploring Local Job Markets

Investigate the job market in your area for new grad nurses. Contact hospitals and clinics to inquire about their hiring policies for new graduates, especially for part-time or per diem roles. Networking with other nurses or joining local nursing associations might provide insights into potential opportunities.

Consider alternative nursing roles that may offer more flexible hours:

  • School nursing. Typically follows the school calendar, which might align with your child's schedule.
  • Community health nursing. Often provides more regular hours compared to hospital shifts.
  • Telehealth nursing. It is growing in popularity and offers the flexibility of working from home.

 Balancing Career and Family

Assess the following to find a balance:

  • Childcare options. Explore reliable childcare solutions, such as after-school programs or trusted babysitters, to cover your work hours.
  • Flexible work arrangements. Some employers offer job-sharing or other flexible arrangements. It might be worth discussing these options with potential employers. Again, typically, these are not for new grads but are something you could pursue down the road.

Financial Considerations

Evaluate the financial implications of continuing versus quitting your nursing program.

Communicate with Your Husband

Have an open and honest discussion with your husband about your career goals and the impact on your family.  Explore his willingness to adjust his travel schedule or find alternative support solutions together to help accommodate your dream.

Whether you decide to pursue nursing or drop out, it should be a decision you make together. If you move forward with nursing school, you are 100% going to need his support.

Conclusion

It is difficult to find part-time or per diem nursing positions as a new grad, and these positions can be disadvantageous to your professional development. Organizations offering part-time or per diem to new grads can be seen as a red flag.

Balancing a nursing career with family responsibilities is challenging but not impossible. In general, you would be looking at however long your program is (btw, did you say a part-time program?) plus two years of full-time work before you go part-time or per diem. Can you and your husband make that work?

Consider the long-term benefits of a nursing career against the short-term challenges.

To make the best decision for your situation, carefully consider your options, seek support, and communicate openly with your family.

Best wishes,

Nurse Beth

 

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