How to tell a fellow student to...?

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I have a fellow student who is ....interesting.

She is shockingly rude, insensitive, and generally disrespectful. I don't mind it as much to the rest of the class, but she is disgusting to placements and patients. Here's a truncated list:

1) We have an opportunity to attend AA to understand alcoholism's effects on people. In the middle of someone's story, her cell phone rings, she gets up, and then answers it!

2) She routinely answers her cell phone in class.

3) She mashes away at her laptop during lectures... even when we have guest speakers!

4) She will give ignorant and uneducated comments to patients. An example: "So you're East Indian? You're not a terrorist are you?"

5) To an obese woman with a hysterectomy: "Wow there sure is a lot of fat. You should work out."

Bear in mind, this is a SHORT list. How do I tell this student to learn some manners? It's been brought up in our class many times and she continues this over and over. I only have 1.5 years left with her, should I consider just leaving it alone? Is this a battle worth fighting? :banghead:

I4) She will give ignorant and uneducated comments to patients. An example: "So you're East Indian? You're not a terrorist are you?"

5) To an obese woman with a hysterectomy: "Wow there sure is a lot of fat. You should work out."

:uhoh3:

Wow...some people...

No offense, but as soon as I began to read your thread I just KNEW you were in first semester. As you continue to progress after fist semester you will stop caring about the behaviors of your fellow classmates because many like her will either be there or they will not. Instructors know how to handle these issues fairly well. Besides, you will be too busy (you are not busy yet... trust me.. you only think you're busy) to care what others are doing or are not doing. GL.

Thank you for replying. I am in my third year. It seems to becoming progressively worse. Today, in our mental health seminar, she referred to schizophrenic patients as "those crazy people with wild visions." My jaw dropped. A classmate piped up and asked her: "Would you call every hypertensive patient "those fat, lazy people who don't eat right?" I applauded. Our instructor talked to this student (the rude one) after class. I applauded once again.

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