Oct 25, 201312 yr Did you have to learn to be a nurse or was it instinctive? Did you grow up just knowing that is what you wanted? More Like This General Nursing OG Nurses: How did you use paper charts? 24 Replies Active 12/20/2025 10:08 PM Health, Stress Management Didn't know I was pregnant 2 Replies Active 05/29/2026 07:10 PM
Oct 25, 201312 yr You do have to learn to be a nurse... nursing school, NCLEX, license, precepting...all this is learned. I learned how to take vital signs, titrate drips, call doctors, use the social skills to interact with patients, nothing about this is instinct. Experience gave me the background to use instincts in certain situations. When experienced nurses say that a patient "looks bad" even when the vital signs look fine, there is a place for instinct, but it is informed by what we have seen. I didn't grow up knowing exactly what I wanted, but nursing came the closest.
Oct 27, 201312 yr Author Thanks RNperdiem! I'll get it all figured out. I just don't want to make a mistake this late in life. If I do go the BSN route I will be almost 48 when I finish the program. I want to make a difference, even if in a small way... I think that is why I am being pulled toward nursing.
Oct 27, 201312 yr I realized I was going to be a nurse when I was wait listed for dental hygiene. Didn't want to wait a year to start a program so I applied to nursing and got in. No visions of being like Flo Nightingale.
Oct 27, 201312 yr You absolutely have to learn! I was a second career nurse and went into the field because I was sick of my job being the same every day. I wanted variety and flexibility (haha...how naive I was!)For the first year and a half, I wondered if I made the right decision. I always seemed to be overwhelmed, had a really difficult time with critical thinking and was afraid of both the patients and the doctors. Now I try to remember that feeling so I can be a good preceptor for new nurses.
Oct 27, 201312 yr Well I truly did not like floor/acute care nursing at all. I'm now in a BSN to DNP program to become a FNP. Unfortunately, the RN is at the bottom of the mountain & we all know what rolls down hill.
Did you have to learn to be a nurse or was it instinctive? Did you grow up just knowing that is what you wanted?