How to handle patient’s threats

Nurses General Nursing

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Hello everyone,

I am new to this wonderful platform. I would like go have your feedback or advice about how to deal with patients’ threats.

In my almost two years of nursing experience, I didn't know how upset patients can get if their pain is not treated and care for appropriately in their own terms. But sometimes, I get patients who say things like ”I want IV push meds only”, ”the oral meds don't work on me, IVP meds work faster”, ”nurse, if you don give me IV pain meds, I am leaving! That's it! I can take better care of my pain at home”.

I always offer non-pharmceutical pain management first: ice or heating pads, elevation, etc, then pain medication. I also explain to my patients that I will Inform the provider about the pain not being well managed with the PRN Tylenol and I assure patients that my hands are tight about medication prescription and drug of choice for them. That I Have limitations withing my scope of practice and I am doing my best.

Most patients apologize, and state they understand me and feel sorry. I can empathize with people and trust my patients when they are in pain and ask many qusriin about their pain (hint; OLD CART).

But sometimes, It is not easy to deal with people who are demanding specific meds and medication routes.

How do you deal with these patients who threat to leave if I don give them the medication they want and get upset and sometimes nasty?

Background info: I work in a Med-Surg floor on evenings.

Thank you in advance for your input!

Just now, Numenor said:

This isn't my first rodeo. I was a nurse for years at every level of the hospital in a drug infested area before becoming a provider. I know exactly what RNs can and can not do unlike most MDs. I know when they are being lazy and trying to pass the buck. I also know when they have hit a wall with patient education, in those situations I can step in and fix things.

Problem is I get lazy pages all day long with nurses that didn't bother to intervene or investigate and simply didn't want to deal with the situation. Nurse do not understand even 20% what providers are doing on a daily basis with regards for patient care, so spare me the guilt that I am not at bedside of every problem patient 24/7.

I don't doubt that you get a lot of "stupid" calls. I sometimes overhear them, although hopefully I don't make many. I just don't think this type of situation can be well-managed any other way.

Occasionally, a patient comes with a "don't call for narcotics" nursing communication order ...along with documentation that the patient has been instructed of the "no narcotics" plan of care. In those cases, the patient can be told up front that it's not happening. I've literally had a patient climb out of their window and take off into the night when they realized they could not manipulate the new face they were seeing.

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