I'm in an uncomfortable situation with a couple of classmates who sit next me. I tape the lectures and spend many hours transcribing them, mostly because the teacher adds much more material than what's in the textbook. It's a major pain, but it's a tremendous help when test time comes around.
One of them asked me for the transcripts when she had to miss class because, she said, her son was in the hospital. I figured, ok, that's an emergency, so I gave them to her.
Since then, she's either missed other classes or showed up and left early, missing lecture. She said she did miss one class because her son was in the hospital again, but I don't know why she left early during the last class. It kinda makes me suspicious about the hospital story, and whether she really needed to miss class or not.
Similar problem with the other classmate. She begged me not to speak up and argue against delaying a test because she needed more study time. So I didn't. Then she doesn't show up for the test. I know she's going to ask for the lecture transcripts, since the teacher lectured on a bunch of material afterward, but I'm kinda peeved that I helped her out with the test situation, only for her to miss it anyway.
I'm pretty sure one, if not both of them are going to ask for my lecture transcripts this week since they've missed so much material. And I'm sure I'll hear the usual excuses, but I'm not sure I believe them anymore.
I like to help people out, because I may have to miss class at some point. But I can't help but wonder if they're taking advantage of the situation. Do I help them or not? If not, do I lie and say the tapes got erased, the tape recorder broke, or something? I do have to work with these people on group assignments, etc. so it could become an uncomfortable situation. And I'm not a great liar.
If you don't believe them, instead of making copies of what you transcribed, just let them borrow the tape. This way they can listen to it themselves, and take their own notes from it. I m really not sure why you didn't do this in the first place.
Don't make enemy's in nursing school, b/c you are going to have to see those same people until the day you graduate, and who knows you may even see them after that. If your not comfortable lending the tape out to them, then ask them to bring their own recorders in and offer to record the lecture for them on their own tape recorder. Just a couple suggestions..... You'll never know when your going to be sick, or get a flat tire on the way to school, or have a family emergency? You might need one of these classmate one day.
:)
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Actually, I agree. I've never done this before. But when someone tells you their kid is in the hospital, you feel bad and want to help. But now I'm regretting it because word got around about me helping with the transcripts. No good deed goes unpunished I guess. *Sigh*
Fivestar22
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If you don't believe them, instead of making copies of what you transcribed, just let them borrow the tape. This way they can listen to it themselves, and take their own notes from it. I m really not sure why you didn't do this in the first place.
Don't make enemy's in nursing school, b/c you are going to have to see those same people until the day you graduate, and who knows you may even see them after that. If your not comfortable lending the tape out to them, then ask them to bring their own recorders in and offer to record the lecture for them on their own tape recorder. Just a couple suggestions..... You'll never know when your going to be sick, or get a flat tire on the way to school, or have a family emergency? You might need one of these classmate one day.
:)
Five=Star