As a new nurse in LTC, I've come across several residents who get bouts of crying and feeling down and alone and helpless. Some have dementia, some are just physically disabled and mostly realize their situation.
It breaks my heart to see them so depressed and crying, and usually I'm passing meds and can't stop and take the time that I would like to, because I do love these residents and care about them, even if tomorrow some will not remember that they cried all day the day before.
I'm not really good with words, so does anyone have some suggestions of what I can say or do to comfort them, even briefly, and let them know that I still care even though I'm on the med cart?
Alot of times, they don't even know why they are sad and crying, or they want to go home (when really they no longer have a home), or a stroke survivor who is crying because they can't communicate anymore, or someone who is obsessing, or one who feels neglected and unloved.
