Gross Out Co-Worker

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OK, I know I've posted about this before but things have gotten worse! My co-worker has nauseating, foul gas and she passes it in close proximity to people. I don't know if she has some kind of health issue, but her gas makes your eyes water. Last night one of the techs actually had a dry heave because it is so nauseating. What I find particularly irritating is that she toots all day long---now I know sometimes one can slip out when you don't want it to, but if I know I have to toot, I excuse myself and go to the rest room. She seems totally uninhibited about this, as she never ever excuses herself.

Secondly, she is always laying towels down on the seats in the station, because she has 'accidents'. Sometimes she has these accidents on our seats. I understand incontinence but there are products to help with that. And it's not just urine---she has also bled on the chairs and then go change her clothes. I have as heavy a period as anyone, and I know that bleeding through like that can be contained. Unless it's some kind of different problem.

Thirdly, she talks with her mouth full, crumbs all stuck to lips, half chewed food rolling around in her mouth CONSTANTLY. It is disgusting! Sometimes when she is talking she even spews a little bit of food in your direction.

Let me say that this person is nice enough, she means well most of the time but has been stepping on toes by making nursing decisions although she is not a nurse. For example, when I pt would not take his meds, she negotiated with him to take CERTAIN meds, which was not really a good thing because the order was for the meds to be given together. She did this in front of me, without discussing it with me first, and so put me in a difficult position in front of the patient who was very volatile. She also went to my boss and told my boss that I was sexually assaulted and so I should not have certain kinds of patients. I told her that IN CONFIDENCE (she's a therapist) and I feel it was not her business to go to my boss and tell her my personal information. Moreover, I do not want my boss thinking I am too fragile to handle certain types of patients.

Does anyone have any advice for dealing with this person? Like I said, she doesn't mean any harm, but she is wreaking havoc on the unit!

Thanks!

It is time for "no more Miz Nice Guy". :nono: I have been in this spot before, the 2 problems with 2 different people. The smelly one I just got fed up with her sitting on the counter in the nurses station,with her chronic diarrhea, body odor and bad breath.I bought her deoderant soap and tooth paste. She acted like she didn't know what I was talking about, I was pretty blunt (We had tried the sensitive approch before) We are tired of the smell and the fact that you don't care about the rest of us, since "the boss" won't say anything I have to. When an ER pt tells me you smell to bad to take care of her that is a sign you have gone over the line. If you have a health problem see a doctor, if you just don't care tell me so we can go to HR. I'm not saying you will be as fortunate but "dirty sally" quit the nexy week, not sure where she went but since she didnt care neither did I

The co worker going to my manager was a male clerk, he knew I had a problem with domestic abuse. He told her I should not be caring for them because I felt to much empathy for the victim due to the one time my husband hit me I packed my bags and moved out. I have NO tolerance and he felt it was wrong of me. There again I had to stand up and say something. He kept a distance from me for a long time . We get along now but I don't think he will step on anyones toes again. :rolleyes: Good luck!

Now, that's an obnoxious little toot! :nono:

Specializes in Med/Surg and ER.

Whew! There's enough smells floating around without having it from a co-worker!

Specializes in NICU, Infection Control.

I do believe any constructive advice on this issue has been posted and the thread is sort of degenerating into junior high school territory.

I will close it for now.

Meerkat--I hope you get the problem solved, and let us know HOW, ok?

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