Why do doctors act like this???

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I work at a very small hospital. We have 2 surgeons, and 2 docs plus a nurse practitioner and a physician's assistant. This morning, xray comes and gets me, they have someone in trouble in the CT. I walk in, the guy is waxy and pale, shaking all over, but responsive, he is half sitting up on the bed. The xray techs are trying to help the guy sit up. In the process his eyes roll up in his head, and he begins to twitch, and becomes unresponsive. (looks like a seizure to me) but quickly reverses out of it. The whole episode lasted about a minute. So we call for someone to call the doctor, I go to get a cuff to get some vital signs and the doctor happens to be coming up the hall. I tell him that we need him in CT and start to get vitals. We attempted to tell him what had happened, he wouldn't listen, all he would say, oh it was just an anxiety attack because they were getting ready to start an IV. Well, stupid me, but, I had just witnessed what I had, and doc didn't even want to know what had happened. I was so angry. Well, we move the guy out into our special care unit for a little while so we could monitor vitals and make sure that he was going to be ok before they did the contrast CT. A little while later, the radiologist came in (we have one that we share with other hospitals) The xray techs had filled him in on what had happened. He came and talked to me----says, gee, sounds like he had a seizure (imagine that), Well in the process, and I guess this is what I am really upset about, the original doctor told another nurse that I needed a valium because I was so hyperactive. That was uncalled for, for starters, secondly, he said it in front of this person's family, trying to be funny. I am not an idiot, I worked in an ICU before I came to this hospital, I ride the local ambulance as an RN---and am quite capable of handling myself in a crisis. Well to make this book short, the patient is ok---and by the end of the day I was speaking to the doctor--but why did he have to try to make me look like and idiot to the patient's family and to the other nurse--even if he thought he was being funny. Thanks for listening.

elder nurse.........

no i don't always see the glass half full.......believe you me.......

but i try..........

the other way for me just doesn't work.........

actually I have had similar situation with doc.......i let myself quietly fume.....slept on it.......and then the next day......

said to doc, Dr._______, can I walk with you to the elevator, as I need to discuss something with you.........we didn't have a problem since then.....

no no no...ill tell you what to do....

make an appointment to see him at his office....reason for visit-hyperactivity-

go to his office and wait till he sees you...oh he is going to love this...lol.....hes not going to know if you are messing or not so he will see you....but hes not going to like it

when its time to examine you tell him you are there to pick up the perscription he wanted you to have. ...you know the valium.

LMAO

Had the MD had his meds,are his delussions being activitly treated if not get referral so he can become normal and learn he is not a 'god"

Petiteflower, Hi!

...Respect is definitely a 2 way street... and there are definitely some Doctors who haven't ever or will never respect nurses - for a variety of reasons - initially, it's a problem between their own 2 ears which leaks out their mouth...

1.. There are those male Dr's who have very little respect for all

women - it is obvious in their care of male vs. female patients, their treatment of female vs. male nurses, their abusive, unprovoked, and unprofessional behavior and words (such as your incident) to women...

2. There are those Dr's who really don't care about others at all- staff, patients, etc... only $$$$$

3. There are those who feel empowered by openly belittling another - especially if there's an audience (as in your case)...

4. There are those without a heart or a conscience, as in all walks of life...

5. There are those without any respect for theirself - again shown by arrogance, as in your example...

....and I could go on and on...

.....just ignore him... He's definitely the one who needs therapy!

Had the MD had his meds,are his delussions being activitly treated if not get referral so he can become normal and learn he is not a 'god"

Specializes in SICU.

I had an MD tell me once that a patient didn't have asystole. She (the MD) was VERY condescending and told me it was probably just artifact. It took this lady passing out and an EKG strip (our dinosaur machines didn't catch the first time) to show her. The lady was in cath lab for a pacemaker insertion within the hour.

I was EXTREMELY irritated, to say the least, and told her so... She doesn't have much to say to me now, lol... :)

I'm SO hurt.

Specializes in SICU.

ALSO, the doctor telling the family you needed Valium is SLANDER. It's the same as you telling the patient's family the doctor needs Viagra cuz he's IMPOTENT. I wonder how that would fly, lol...

And if it wasn't slander, if he really DID think that, then he breached confidentiality by telling the patient's family of his diagnosis of you...

:)

to sum it up, there are jackasses all over this world, the medical field is no exception

the floor I work on has many of them

who just put nurses down on a whim, for kicks even

they can take their superiority and shove it as far as I'm concerned, sad truth of the matter is were all gonna be patients one day, even them!

respect is a two way street, if you dont give it you shouldnt get it, unfortunately drs are placed on this pedestal because they are the lifesavers

while we are viewed by many as the a$$ wipers...

its not true of course, but until the attitudes change, the superiority complexes arent going anywhere

we have a dr who looks so professional, a nice looking woman, well dressed, until she opens her mouth, everythin is F this F that yadda yadda

its disgusting!

she just freaked out on us because she wanted to transfuse a patient and there was no consent so she was paged to come sign one....she yelled and screamed about how this patient had several tranfusions as an outpatient years ago (YEARS AGO!?!?!) and shouldnt need a new consent

she knows better, just wanted to try to throw around her power a little bit, I kindly deferred to our nurse clinician to handle the subject

I'm not gonna get into a pissing contest with someone who clearly just wants to abuse their power.

thats the best thing you can do, know youre there for your patients,and dont feed into the hype that these drs try to create

its like that annoying little kid in school who would just try to get a rise out of anyone

ignore it and they will go away, if they dont go away at least they will look stupid for aruging with themselves :)

cheers! :)

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