Does Upper Management Even Have a Clue?

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So when we new grads were first hired everyone was excited to see us. Of course they were...night shift was WAAAY short staffed. We have a short class time each week and then we work with a preceptor for their 3 12s each week. That's our training for 16 weeks. Anyway, the upper management keeps saying "Noone expects you to be perfect. We want you to ask questions" yet when we do some nurses roll their eyes, talk smack behind our backs, and are just down right Rude. I was sitting beside a preceptor the other day, who was not mine, when one nurse came by and asked "Oh, are you on babysitting duty today?" The preceptor didn't hear her...but I sure did. I may be a new grad, but I do NOT need babysitting. I'm so tired of people being ridiculous and petty. I understand that many of these nurses have been in the ER forever, but they too were new once. Noone comes to a job knowing everything, but acting like we're bothering you may actually make us not want to ask questions....and then how will we learn? I don't ask tons of questions. I mostly try to look things up myself, but you get my point. The funny thing is is that most of the nasty nurses have never even spoken to me. I mean really..."If you are not going to speak TO me, then please don't speak ABOUT me." I feel like this is highschool drama/popularity contest, more than I feel like it's a job. The upper management seems oblivious and sometimes I feel like they just don't want to make waves with these seasoned nurses. I understand not wanting to lose those nurses, but a hostile work environment is not something anyone should have to come in to.

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The ones giving me flack aren't my preceptor. My preceptor rocks!! These people are just people we work with. I have found that asking other people questions seems to be the answer. I just hate feeling like I have to avoid certain people when I haven't done anything wrong, except for graduate the RN program....well in their eyes that's a problem :-) I'm just going to sit back and enjoy the ride. They won't effect me forever right? I mean will they even matter in 5 days-yes, 5 weeks-maybe, 5 months-probably not, and 5 years- most definitely NOT. I'll just learn their good traits and learn from their bad ones.

Specializes in ER, IICU, PCU, PACU, EMS.

Being the rookie in any job is difficult. I experienced the same thing you are going through when I was new to the ED. I used my previous experience as a rookie when I was a police officer and a firefighter - talk about being treated like crap! It will eventually pass until you prove yourself. Continue to utilize your preceptors and ask questions, many questions and learn from them. I started in a really rough ED (personality wise). They didn't like anyone new. I stuck it out, helped the cranky nurses when they needed it, worked hard/smartly and slowly built a solid reputation in the unit. You won't know everything, but your work ethic will pull you through. And don't let them walk all over you, stand up for yourself. People are strange sometimes. My preceptor was one of those cranky nurses, so my orientation was a baptism by fire experience. I now have terrific relationships with all of the nurses in my unit.

Just stick it out and prove yourself - you'll do fine. The ED is a difficult place to start as a new nurse. I compare it to the survival of the fittest of nursing. You'll discover who your "go to" people will be.

Best of luck to you! :D

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