When giving an explanation for resignation from a position, does the employer not want the truth? I was asked by 4 different people in the upper management why I was resigning.....I was tactful, honest and did not use any names though I'm sure, given the smallness of the place, it was not difficult for anyone to figure out who I was referencing. The manager of this place is very, very nice, has great ideas BUT is disorganized and spent a lot of time on personal issues/commitments outside of work, was late or didn't show at times that were scheduled for meetings etc. but almost constantly spoke of feeling overwhelmed. The point was reached for me, this past week, that as long as this person is in charge, there will continue to be confusion, people quitting, families and patients unhappy and deadlines not met. This is not a personal dislike of the manager - everyone likes this person however nice doesn't = good leader. I realized I would be beating my head against the wall if I stayed. I was heartsick of resigning because this was a position, for the first time in a llloonng time I could see myself staying in, excelling in and helping make this place what the company has been striving to make it for sometime. I tendered my resignation yesterday with the intent of staying for 2 weeks or until they found someone else for this position. Last night a little after 9 the manager left me a message asking me to return my keys asap. I was shocked but did so this a.m. 4 people from higher up have contacted me today - again, I was honest and tactful. I don't know what I expected but there has been nothing, no return call/email from the feedback they asked for. I do not want anyone to lose their job but at the same time this manager is a large part of the reason people leave, etc. as I stated above. Was I wrong to be honest? Should I have just said " oh, the position just isn't for me" or something along those lines? If former employees are honest then how is a company going to change? Do they not want to?
I am REALLY down about this resignation even though I know it was the right thing to do given the temperament of the place now. I start another position next week so I'm not freaking out about another job it's just THIS job would've worked really well for me and it seems...to sound childish...unfair that someone who is nice but not qualified to be in the lead role stays while everyone else either worries themselves to death over what "crisis" will come up next or like me, if they are licensed, leave because of fear of something "major" happening and that effecting the rest of their careers. I don't know..just venting and confused.