Do even pediatric nurses get jaded?

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So I'm working fastrack in an adult ER, I have about 4 Cough/Cold/Achy patients at any given time. These people DON'T need to be in the ER. Theres NOTHING we can do for their cold that OTC meds don't also do! A good dose of emotional suppression keeps me still able to smile at these patients, but thats only on a good day. For the most part my compassion tank is empty after the first one who is demanding more attention than my REAL sick patients.

When I think about pediatrics, I don't think I would ever feel this way no matter how many times a little kid came in feeling ill. Kids are different, they can't care for themselves, I don't expect them to know how, and I can be sympathetic to new parents who are scared. Even if I saw 100 minor colds in a day, I don't think it would affect me the way adults do.

Does it?

The parents can be very annoying. I might have a mom bless me out b/c I don't think their 15 year old with a fever of 99.8 needs to go to the emergency room. Then I'll have a child with a stiff neck, petichiae, and high fever and the mother (who is "educated") refuses to take her to the ed even though I tell her she might die. I have moms tell me they can't take their one year old's temp b/c "they won't let me".

It also gets very sad to know just how poorly so many children are taken care of. It can be heart breaking. BUT the once in a blue moon that the parents seem super grateful or you know for a fact you saved the child's life, makes it all worth it.

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