Anxiety over in-person job interview

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I know I come here a lot seeking advice (and you have all been good to me) but I'm having serious anxiety over an upcoming interview. A recruiter put me in touch with a LTC/palliative care facility out of state. After two phone interviews they asked me to come for an interview, and are even putting me up in a nice motel. The recruiter talked to me today about things I should do. I didn't have a lot of money to spend but I've put together a "professional" outfit (though it looks kind of dowdy.). I was told to come up with a list of questions to ask, and I'm having some trouble with this. Any ideas?

I've been looking for a job for so long, I don't want to mess this up. The recruiter said not to be surprised if they send me home with a contract. I'm wondering if by having me come down there they have pretty much decided to give me a chance, or if this is just part of the interview process and they are interviewing other candidates? I just wonder how close I am to actually having the position.

Another question: if they hire me how long is it going to take to get a temporary license? How long will it be before I go down there and start working? I will be going from Tennessee to South Carolina. They are giving me an extra night in the motel so I can spend time looking around the area at housing. I'm afraid to get my hopes up, but does this sound like a pretty sure deal?

There is another thing, I was told by the recruiter they may ask what sets me apart from other people who may apply to the job. This kind of makes me feel like a deer in the headlights...what sort of answer would they be looking for? Would they be looking for something like, how much experience I have working with the elderly and those who are near the end of life and I feel like I have attained some good experience in my career that could help me in my practice? Or am I totally off?

Could someone help me put all this into a coherent presentation? I've just been to so many job interviews only to hear, "we still have other people to interview"..."we've got your number"...blah blah blah. I just feel like I should brace myself for more rejection.

Thanks for the advice. No, I haven't done any mock interviews. It's too late for this one, maybe I could do it in the future.

I have been getting professional help for many years and take medication. My husband is the one who compared us to Ma and Pa Kettle, he, he. I'd be perfectly fine with that if I could just land that dang job!

I have been getting professional help for many years and take medication. My husband is the one who compared us to Ma and Pa Kettle, he, he. I'd be perfectly fine with that if I could just land that dang job!

Your reference to "professional help" and "medication" suggests you're talking about psychiatric care. There are also people out there, who are not related to healthcare, who can coach you specifically on professional skills and presentation, including interview skills. You might consider a workshop or some individual coaching of that type. :) Interview skills are something that can be learned. Best wishes!

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