Alzheimer's-Brother won't help!!!

[Blackcat99]

:angryfire :angryfire :angryfire I have taken care of my mother who has alzheimer's for over 6 years now. My brother who lives nearby visits every 2 weeks and stays for about 30 minutes. He does absolutely nothing for his own mother. He comes over here and acts like a police officer critizing and finding fault with everything I do!!!!! How can a man who does absolutely nothing for his own mother act this way? What would you do? Any and all advice appreciated. Thanks

[ktwlpn, LPN]

My husband will never expect me to bear the burden of caring for my mother in law.Thankfully-because I would NOT do it..I also would never expect my grown son to care for me if I become unable to care for myself.I have no daughters so I know where I'll end up-straight to an LTC.