Advice for parents in nursing school

Heatblan87 · Oct 7, 2018

Hey there! I'm in the same boat as you. I have 3 kids (my youngest is 12 weeks) and I also work from home part time and an married. So I know your struggles. First off, congrats on getting into such a competitive program! It seems you have the work ethic to put your nose to the floor and get it done. Employ the kind offerings of your mom and MIL. My mom and aunt have been irreplaceable to my success while working towards nursing school. Just keep doing what you're doing and most of all, don't lose sight of WHY you're doing it.

pro-student · Oct 9, 2018

Just keep doing what you're doing and most of all, don't lose sight of WHY you're doing it.

I second this advice. It's good that you are aware of the challenges so you are read to face them head-on but try not to tell that overwhelm you. In my experience, parents make some of the best students. They almost always have a good reason for pursing their education, are motivated to succeed, have a good sense of prioritizing, and are used to juggling multiple demands for their time and attention. The most vulnerable parents to failing out are those that don't have the supports in place they need to be successful but it sounds like you have that covered.

The only other advise I can give is to keep your eye on the prize. Things will get tough and quitting will look attractive at some point. Keep yourself and your time organized. Stay on top of studying because it is extremely easy to get behind and overwhelmed. Don't beat yourself up over what you can't do. And never be afraid to ask for help (academically or socially).

NursingHopeful95, ADN · Oct 10, 2018

Hey there! I'm in the same boat as you. I have 3 kids (my youngest is 12 weeks) and I also work from home part time and an married. So I know your struggles. First off, congrats on getting into such a competitive program! It seems you have the work ethic to put your nose to the floor and get it done. Employ the kind offerings of your mom and MIL. My mom and aunt have been irreplaceable to my success while working towards nursing school. Just keep doing what you're doing and most of all, don't lose sight of WHY you're doing it.

Wow! You are amazing!!! I admire you for doing it all.

Thank you I'm still in shock!

I will definitely be taking advantage of my mom & mother in laws offerings.

Yes that is Very true I am extremely motivated & ready to start I will not lose sight of why I started although I'm sure it's going to be hard most of the time. Thank you again & best of luck to you! Keep being awesome.

NursingHopeful95, ADN · Oct 10, 2018

I second this advice. It's good that you are aware of the challenges so you are read to face them head-on but try not to tell that overwhelm you. In my experience, parents make some of the best students. They almost always have a good reason for pursing their education, are motivated to succeed, have a good sense of prioritizing, and are used to juggling multiple demands for their time and attention. The most vulnerable parents to failing out are those that don't have the supports in place they need to be successful but it sounds like you have that covered.
The only other advise I can give is to keep your eye on the prize. Things will get tough and quitting will look attractive at some point. Keep yourself and your time organized. Stay on top of studying because it is extremely easy to get behind and overwhelmed. Don't beat yourself up over what you can't do. And never be afraid to ask for help (academically or socially).

Thank you for the advice! Like most people I jumped through hoops to be able to get to this point & I won't lose sight of why I'm doing this. My passion is in oncology, it's a topic that is very near & dear to my heart & I will let that be my guiding light through the hard days that are to come.

Also I'm going to Have to get more organized & plan everything in advance!