Ugh! Sometimes it gets to me how wonderfully naive most people are to what goes on in the hospital. Thankfully, I suppose, my family is "medically naive". While my mother suffers from two chronic, progressively debilitating diseases, my family has otherwise no experience with the hospital, and especially ICU world. And while this is a good thing, they get upset when I don't feel like telling them everything that goes on at work, because there is no way they could ever GET it.
This conversation, for instance happened between my dad and I at dinner tonight (I recently transferred from being a NICU RN to a peds CICU rn):
Dad: so whats the biggest difference in taking care of a 6 year old vs a newborn?
Me: (thinking to myself...seriously?? there's A LOT) Well sedation is a bigger issue, they're a lot harder to keep in their beds
Dad: Well, don't they have an IV where you can just give them meds? I mean, you're not going at them with needles or anything, they should already have an IV right?
Me: Yes, they usually already have an IV...or 6, but it takes more people, I have the hold the kid down in the bed while two other nurses go to the pyxis to pull out the meds and draw them up for me
Dad: (very obviously trying to picture this situation) Well, why is the kid trying to get out of their bed...they already have the IV (he things the only reason kids would want out is if i'm trying to stick them)...and he can't be THAT strong (HA!)
Me: Well he's confused, scared, in pain, has more wires/tubes/drains you name it attached to his body, he's on a breathing machine and that's bugging the heck out of him and he's disoriented from the meds I gave him 10 minutes ago which obviously didn't hold
Dad: Well if he's so awake why don't you just let him wake up and take him off the breathing maching?
Me: You would think...
Dad: and why don't the meds sedate him enough? Can't you just keep giving more?
Me: Well, you know how drug addicts and alcoholics build up tolerance to whatever their addicted to?
Dad: Yes
Me: Well, while I just gave this 20kg 6 year old enough drugs to knock YOU out for a day or two, he has built up a tolerance to them and they are essentially having the same effect as a cheap OTC cold medicine.
Dad: Well, then let him wake up
We also managed to tip-toe around the whole overuse of blood products that happens in the hospital (aka pumping blood into a dead body), didn't get too into it because my dad is VERY religious (God will call all time of deaths) and he also mentioned something along the lines of "thats why they pay the docs the big bucks, not the nurses, to call it"
Ugh! I know it's silly to get annoyed over this stuff but sometimes I wish people could shadow me for a day and see what I REALLY do