This is my first post, I came across your site while searching the net for inspiration. I feel somewhat better just reading the archives, But i could use some ideas on how to handle this situation.
I have been a nurse for 25 years the last 4 in PACU, I have endured verbal abuse through the years, most of which I ignore occasionally firing back if they push me far enough. Yesterday was the final straw, we have a very verbally abusive(some say crazy ortho guy) Most of the time if you ignore him he will go away, yesterday he crossed the line and slapped me on the shoulder, in anger, and then screamed at me for 10 min because a family had gone out to smoke and he wanted to talk to them.
Here's my "mistake", I reported him to my supervisor and the legal dept. Unfortunately I do not have a witness to the slap, but when he started screaming 2 other nurses did walk to the station and heard everything.
First he outright denied it, now he's saying he may have bumped me in passing(like I don't know the difference). Of course administration is leaning toward his version, he brings in big bucks for the hosp. Now I'm being hung out to dry and he's threating me with a slander suit that I certainly can't afford. He has been physically abusive to other nurses but most are too afraid of losing their jobs to say anything.
Do I quit and walk away or try to fight (he has a team of laywers he's been in trouble so often) when I know I can't win. The one thing I do refuse to do is withdraw the complaint I can find a new job, but I won't compromise my reputation I've earned over these long years.
Thanks for listening, I feel better getting it off my chest, But I have been a wreck since it happened.HELP